3, 23, 24 dealer's choice (or maybe aeron or trouble)?
I will do both you suggested because nobody can ever shut me up about my characters, and I’m always in the mood to talk about any of my sad mafia children!
♥ (03) Are there any romantic gestures that your OC loves?
Gifts, definitely. And not, as you would guess from his personality, necessarily expensive or shiny ones. Honestly any kind of sign that someone actively thought of him because of a thing and then GOT HIM THAT THING would charm him hands down. If they specifically MADE HIM A THING, he would be completely floored. Also: if someone were to prove that they were willing to protect/defend him it gets him. His upbringing was very ‘help the Flock and the Flock helps you, otherwise you’re on your own’ so he learned not to 100% depend on anyone but himself, even if they say they’ve got your back.
♥ (23) What is your OC’s favorite nice thing to do for themselves?
Get his hands on some good food and find somewhere for some alone time. ‘Alone time’ ranges anywhere from finding a place to nap, maybe climbing a building so he can people-watch and not be disturbed, to finding a hidden place for…well, you know ;)
Growing up in a house with 14 younger siblings and a busy mom means alone time is a precious commodity.
♥ (24) How does your OC determine that they’re attracted to someone?
Are they male or in some way at least partially male-aligned in regards to their gender identity? Do they look like they could crush him with their pinkie finger? (On a much more subconscious note, and for more long-term relationships) have they proven themselves trustworthy and are they willing to have his back when he needs them?
♥ (03) Are there any romantic gestures that your OC loves?
Big gestures, mostly. Not like having their love for him paraded around on a huge sign or something, but like something that actively takes time and effort. Fancy nights out to dinner and a movie, a home-cooked meal presented like a fancy dinner out, etc etc. He’s usually the one doing the grand gestures, so to have someone actively turn things around and do that stuff for him? Blows him away every time.
♥ (23) What is your OC’s favorite nice thing to do for themselves?
Sleep in, eat out at one of his favorite restaurants, get a beer at his favorite bar, grab lunch from his favorite deli, take a long and luxurious warm bath, buy himself a bottle of the really good fire-whiskey to enjoy…
Stuff that usually is limited by his job or his funds.
♥ (24) How does your OC determine that they’re attracted to someone?
He’s got specific types that he’s attracted to differing based on men or women. For women, he likes a dame who ain’t afraid to talk back, who ain’t afraid or shy around him, and who could probably kick his ass. For men, he likes a guy who’s got a friendly and disarming personality, but who is secretly surprisingly strong/good in a fight/dangerous. Bonus points for each if they’re snappy dressers. Extra bonus points if they’re on the heavier side. He likes a bit of meat on his potential partners, a bit of softness to them. And if they don’t have a bit of pudge? They probably will very soon because one of the ways he shows love is through food and the cuisine his mom taught him to cook is good ol’ rib-stickin’ hearty fantasy-southern food. Between the occasional family dinner with his mom, who is absolutely the kind to insist you eat more and take home leftovers, and his own cooking…well…
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