The wrong mediation, will often result in a falling out, through a lack of cooperation and communication.
Cooperation and communication are both tools that if managed correctly can bring about positive results. Perhaps we need to think about how we could have done things better. We can either work to change the things that need to be changed, otherwise we’ll choose to ignore those things. That won’t help us further down the line of course.
Perhaps, therefore if we do something wrong we should work to put it right. Mistakes happen. Things go wrong, that’s life, but how we correct our mistakes is the difference between patching things up and walking away. If the shoe were on the other foot, others would be looking to us to put things right, therefore we must do the same for others.
Looking at the bigger picture of course, allows us to understand why what happened, happened; regardless of who was at fault. It’s not about who's at fault, it's about being honest and correcting our mistake.
Whatever the problem, through mediation an understanding can always be reached but we’ve got to want to put things right. It’s sad when we don’t and instead choose to walk away.
Whatever the issue, our personal lives should never interfere with doing what’s right. We should want to do what’s right.
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