There is something in a toast that is particularly moving.
You raise your glass and bless the honoree with words of affirmation and appreciation.
There are two distinct times Jamie makes this gesture for his wife:
After Jamie and Claire are first wed, Jamie looks at the woman he loves and acknowledges her worthiness:
“To a lady of grace, a woman of strength, and a bride of astonishing beauty. My wife: Claire Fraser.”
What is striking about this toast is that it is a choice. Jamie bestows it knowing in all likelihood not only the gesture will not be reciprocated, but even the feelings. Jamie grants his wife this gift without knowing of her true feelings. He CHOOSES to celebrate her anyway.
And Claire stands there awestruck by the sincere generosity of his heart.
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After Jamie and Claire figure out the hidden code within the messages from Sandrigham, Jamie looks at the woman he loves and acknowledges her worthiness:
“To my wife: who is always there when I need her.”
What is breathtaking about this toast is that it is a choice. Raising his wounded hand to his heart, Jamie professes this truth even when a few days prior he felt betrayed by Claire. He CHOOSES to believe the best of his bride and safeguards her character in his sight.
And Claire stands there transfixed by the gracious fervency of his love.
The powerful potency that even a small toast can communicate:
With all that I am and all that I have: I honor you.