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I admitted a lie that I told almost 5 years ago today to my husband.
We went to a Halloween party in 2017 and we had been married for only 1 day. Everyone was drinking way too much except for my husband who was on call. I’m at a long table with Brooke talking about the small ceremony we had at our wedding and a very skanky girl who is known for getting around approaches my husband.
Skank face: How are you enjoying married life?
Husband: It’s great 😊
Skank face: Oh? That’s a shame because I was going to let you know if you ever get bored or lonely I’m always around 👿 (while she rubbed her hand down my husbands arm!)
Husband: ( immediately walks away from her)
He asked when we were leaving after telling me what happened and we left right then. He was very quiet on the drive home and I also want to point out that I am a very insecure and jealous person.
So what I saw was my husband being told that he has another readily available girl when he gets bored having seggs with me. So I decided to add what I thought was a little lie to the night so my husband didn’t think he was hit on out of lust but instead mischief. I told him that my best friend asked skank face to hit on him to test his loyalty to me. Misguided and mischief is my best friend and this is something she used to do to me all the time in high school. My husband was pissed and took it very seriously and my little lie became a big deal.
He now hated my best friend.
Over the last 5 years it has been impossible for me to get my husband to “forgive” my best friend for the lie I told. He doesn’t like her at the house and he hates me going to see her and it has made me being able to see her a difficult fight every single time and it’s all my fault. So tonight I not only had to admit that I lied but I also had to admit that I did it because I was embarrassed and insecure and jealous and so scared of losing him so soon after we got married.
I actually feel so much better getting that lie off my chest.
Should I tell my best friend that’s why my husband doesn’t want her around????
