sometimes it's tiring to be present in alterhuman spaces.
I don't visit the most famous part of the community, usually found at tiktok or youtube. I always see comments of them trying to defend intolerant perspectives regarding everyone's identities. I also can't stand another "no I don't actually believe I'm an animal!! These are lycanthropes and they need help because they're insane!!! Not me!!!" in every video's comment section. I atleast don't see a lot of those in here, but sometimes I still do. With that, I get a little more isolated from the entire community.
Then there's the tumblr community. I blocked the therian tag because me and my headmates are tired of seeing "universal experiences" that only apply to certain people + drama of other social medias being brought to tumblr. I usually lurk around mutuals' blogs and non-alterhuman posts because it feels both more accepting and more relatable to me. Most of the times I go to #physical alterhuman, #holothere or #transspecies I meet various ableist posts, specially those excluding CLCZs or shifters. It feels like your identity is only valid when you experience capital R Reality as everyone else does and if you dare to speak about how you experience reality you're either a a) cultist, b) bad person, c) delusional (and must tag your "unreality" accordingly) or d) all of the above.
Then, the only safe places become very small individual communities hidden across multiple platforms.
Discussing about my experiences is very hard when most people perceive them the same way an adult perceives a kid telling them they're a vampire or fairy. Infantilized, that's how I feel. I am also really distressed by those who try to actively give a "reality check" to everyone who don't share their views or opinions on a lot of different topic. And this is without even mentioning those who hate creatures like me because they are "jealous" of our experiences. The "if we can't go through the same things, I'll atleast make you feel bad over it" belief is so common around here it's honestly hard to believe that this is actually supported as a way to exclude even more us, the "less-acceptable-than-normal physical nonhumans".
It's also devastating to find comfort in only a few singular blogs that share your experience and then to find out they're slowly fading away from the community: excluded blogs, abandoned blogs; those who simply vanish away. Those who are tired from being persecuted, lynched for who they are. Those whose health have worsened because of the way they are treated in one of the only spaces they can truly share their thoughts and experiences... or atleast some of them.
I am very tired of people not acknowledging others' identities, trying to gatekeep terms and trying to divide the community. We're a bunch of weird creatures that don't always fit the human label very well. To the eyes of most non-alterhumans we are all the same anyways. Why try to make of some identities a "us versus them" situation when they're simply just trying to represent something you don't understand and doesn't experience ? Why exclude and fakeclaim certain members to appease nobody but yourself ? Are those who do these kinds of things really "helping the community" by increasing the hatred of the already hated ? Or are they simply perpretating the exclusion of those who are considered "worse than others" in this community ? Who are they helping by making our communities "look cleaner" ? Who are they making this for ?

















