#p:dh

[profandrewbarrett]

[PM] Oh god no, I won't mention that ever. You guys weren't together at that time though, I didn't even know you were a thing... don't blame me. I just meant about my sex life..

[PM] Hit me with your best shot.

[profandrewbarrett]

PM: Yes he did, that time Chel got suspended for standing up for me and you kept hinting that I had a crush on someone in faculty.. you were really rude.

[PM] I am really rude. Personalities have pros and cons. I don’t pretend to understand why. And that was one instance. Any other time, I was correct and/or justified. No blow jobs or intercourse were promised to have him agree with me.

[profandrewbarrett]

PM: He told me I was right too.

[PM] He did not.

[profandrewbarrett]

PM: Psh not around me. You always glare at me, don't think I haven't noticed.

[PM] Well, that could just be my face.. but, yes, I do tend to glare at you. I think you have a lot of learning and growing to do, and that your opinions are not always well formed.

[profandrewbarrett]

PM: I'll keep her name out of my mouth, got it.

[PM] I’m worried that you didn’t come to that outcome yourself. Your desire to martyr yourself is.. bothersome.

[profandrewbarrett]

PM: You think I'm wrong for standing up for myself too? Wonderful. Thanks.

[PM] I think you have to pick your battles. You shouldn’t cause them. Someone willing to martyr themselves so.. readily is… .. a very worrying, endangered/ing person.

You made the first move. This was barely ‘standing up for oneself’ and resonates somewhere between ‘adding logs to the fire’ and ‘foot in the mouth.’ Perhaps next time, and the times after.. you should ignore the questions you receive pertaining to Delphine. 

[tate-steele]

Different Hearts | Tasher (Flashback)

The petite brunette sighed as she waited at the restaurant she was supposed to meet her boyfriend at after his gig. She fiddled with her fingers nervously as the thoughts that were running through her head, how the hell did they end up in this position? A waitress walked up to her which caused her to look up but before she even asked the question Tate shook her head “Just give me a few more minutes please?” she asked with pleading eyes as she watched the woman go away from where she was. The next decision she was going to make was going to change everything.

[profandrewbarrett]

[Private]

danielle-troublemaker said: What if it’s a dickhead who’s ignored safe word?

.. Well. That changes things slightly. Some Dominants use.. body language and signals as well as safe words. Some will choose to continue if the submissive's body is reacting well to the stimulation and there doesn't seem to be any discomfort - even if the safe word is used.

If a submissive were to safe word and want them to stop and the Dominant didn't, that should be the end. Whatever relationship you were in should end, or at least be put on an indefinite hiatus. You shouldn't stay with a Dom/me who is abusing their power over you. Dubious consent may be good for some, but not for others. However, if your friend thinks she sees a change in this Dominant... again, I don't know what you can do. If she trusts him, you have to hope that, 1) She is a good judge of character and 2) He won't do it again. I'd hope that your friend had more... sense (rude term, I know, don't yell at me) than to have sex with this Dom/me so soon.