🫶🏼FRIENDS VS CLIENTS🫶🏼 There is a very challenging energy in the collective where both the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine elements within us are being asked to grow up. To stop relying on external forces to cushion our mother issues and father issues. Relationships are spaces in which we can learn, but they are not meant to be dynamics where one person raises another in the places where they where not nurtured, nourished or inspired as a child. This dynamic is already creating a rift between existing partners where one has been doing their work to how and develop as an adult, and the other still has a way to go within themselves and consciously or unconsciously puts that burden on their partner. This is our own work. Nobody can do it for us. Where we have been neglected, abused and abandoned, we are no longer children to be patented by another, but parts of us still need that healing nurture. It is for us to learn how to provide it. To read, to meditate, to see a professional therapist, visit a healer. This has caused me to draw some conclusions on how I can safely be present for more people while keeping myself healthy and vital. As a well-being practitioner I can hold space for you in a way that would not be sustainable in a friendship. The professional context sets boundaries that mean I can offer you the fullness of my energy, whichever practices we are doing, while you retain personal responsibility for your own healing. I am holding space for you to work out your own healing, which includes you learning how to hold space for yourself. It’s you who have to book the session, you who have to invest your money in it, you who have to turn up for yourself and you who take yourself away at the end of it. Nobody can do these things for you. And from my perspective, I can help many more people in this way than I could personally befriend. If you are ready to heal, and you want me to be a part of that, drop me a private message, and let us begin! Photos by: @wildlove_photos @charlotteburnphotography @izzyacetophoto @j.h.o.l.l.a.n.d #shashaspiritledlife #shasharishi #selfhealing #parentyourself #personalresponsibility #healyourself https://www.instagram.com/p/CnWdiVooTSZ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
