Sep 23, 2013
Think before you speak
You'll never know what might happen.
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Think before you speak
You'll never know what might happen.
"Nagiging bitter ka lang naman kapag sobra kang umaasa" - Lorrenz, 2013.
If I were to give advice to myself.
Okay lang maging bitter. Nagmahal ka eh! Hindi naman mawawala yan in days. Or even months. Iiyak mo lang yan. Mawawala yan in time. Wag ka matakot maging bitter. Wag ka lang sanang maging desperada. Kung bitter, bitter lang. Hindi yung gusto mo pa syang mabalik. BITTER LANG, PERIOD. Sabi nga nila. "Madami namang iba jan eh." sagot ko,"Madami ngang iba, mahal ko ba?". Okay. Remember na yung taong cause ng tears mo ngayon ay at one point, isa sya sa mga 'madadaming iba' na yan. Gawin mo lang yung technique mo Monica, mag hanap ka. Doesnt matter kung mahal mo or hindi. Basta mahal ka. You have to feel loved despite all the emptiness you're feeling because of him. Wag mong isipin na "Wala kang pakeelam sakanya." And or "hindi sya worth it." Sino ba niloko mo? Sarili mo diba? You know naman deep inside na mahal mo sya. Why lie to yourself? Lie to others, not to yourself. Dont force yourself to believe na ayaw mo na sakanya. Dint rush moving on. Kasi it will be harder. Magsasawa ka din, kaka-stalk sakanya, kaka hintay ng text nya, kaka view ng profile nya, magsasawa ka din. If you cant do any of these. Yung love/emptiness na naf-feel mo, change it to anger. Magalit ka sakanya. Effective yan. Promise! :)
Payo 101 : "There's a lot of fish in the sea"
Answer: Tang inang yan! Oo single ako. Oo gusto ko magkaroon ng syota pero wag naman isda. Tao ako at tao din ang hanap. Kaya wag na wag mo sasabihin sakin na maraming isda sa dagat dahil hindi ako bobo, alam ko yun. Allergic ako sa isa at IKAW ANG GUSTO KO.
Huwag mong masyadong pahalagahan ang isang tao, dahil sa bandang huli, gaano man sila kaimportante, maliit man o malaki ang nagwa nila sa buhay mo, IIWAN AT IIWAN KA PA RIN NILA.
Ang isang RELASYON, hindi PINAGLALARUAN. Hindi pwedeng KAYO dahil TRIP o dahil USO. Dahil CUTE, dahil IN o dahil BORED lang. Kung KAYO, PANINDIGAN NIYO. Dahil ang RELASYON, hindi lang JUST FOR FUN.
Kung maghihintayan lang kayo, walang mangyayari.
Effort, pre. EFFORT.
Hindi ba't napakasarap isipin at ipagsigawan sa mundo na napasayo yung taong mahal mo? At lalong masarap pakinggan at nakakakilig kung ikaw ang gumawa ng paraan para magkatotoo yung pangarap mo? Kung maghihintay ka, samahan mo na rin ng Effort. Malay mo, yun lang din naman ang gusto niya. Ikaw lang din naman ang gusto niya. Nakakahiya naman siguro kung siya ang aakyat ng ligaw sa'yo, dba?