#pearlredlights

[marktuan]

when you get this, you must publicly post something nice about at least 5 different people you follow, then copy and paste this in each of their ask boxes. check my blog to see what I said about you!

thank you so much for the sweet message, nargees!!

1. rhea- we’re sooo super glad to have met you :’D thank you for being such a good friend/supporter/mamarhea to us for the past 4 years. rhea’s tags are very amusing and her responses are always thought out and fun to read! we love youu forever, rhea ♥♥♥ (and we also miss you like crazy T__T)

2. nargees- one of our favorite blogs/bloggers!! nargees is so nice and sweet and has been a wonderful friend the past 4 years :’) thank you for always tagging us in things even though we’re lazy poops and don’t do a lot of them …. and she makes beautiful gifs (idk what she’s complimenting ours)!! i’m forever glad we followed each other *o*

3. min- even though she’s been on hiatus for… quite some time now, min will always be one of our favorites :) we still keep in touch through fb/instagram and i’m always happy to see her updates ^_^ she’s someone we can talk to about anything and everything! (also if there are any dbsk fans here, her graphics are beautiful)

4. cat- cat is super cute and nice and sends us all these supportive and nice messages ♥ She is a very talented and creative writer and her scenarios are so cute! + she is really sweet to her followers and has very cute glasses and hair hehe

[gainen]

pearlredlights: doing what should be done VS doing what you want to do

obviously everybody would prefer to do what they want to do, but for me the question really only considers the result. sometimes doing what you want to do is the better option rather than doing what should be done. obviously if I always did what should be done and ignored what I actually wanted, I'd be leading a very repressed life and I wouldn't be enjoying it very much, so to me the key is striking a balance. For less important things in which the result does not have as great an impact, or is less of a priority to me, sometimes I give in and just do what I want to do (eg if it's a non-graded assignment I just procrastinate - bad, but true).

But then again there are shades of gray areas when doing what should be done is what you want to do. I don't know if it sounds complicated, but like doing a good deed, you feel good inside sometimes what you do what you know you should be doing. Obviously you're not approaching it with good intentions if you do what should be done in order to feel that "good feeling" but like any other habit it'll slowly ingrain itself into you and then doing what should be done and doing what you want to just becomes a natural thing.

But back to the point, I'm a somewhat calculative person, I do a lot of things with mind the consequence and how it'll affect my future choices, so that's how I decide between what should be done and doing what I want to do.

[adonistic-blog]

awesome edits! <333

thank you so very much! right back to you tho, you have beautiful edits yourself. :D

[happytvxq]

~~like a melody and harmony in love~~

Request Soulmates: pearlredlights

[gainen]

Color Meme || Jaechun - Yellow; asked by pearlredlights When I'm losing my control, the city spins around You're the only one who knows, you slow it down

[vanillatinks-blog]

omg shinee isn't even my fandom but your edits are gorgeous and AMAZING IDK they're so unique and vibrant and i haven't seen anything like them !! ;~; <33333

wow, thank you so, so much! ♥ i'm glad you like them~

[gainen]

"pursues excellence in what you do? :D" @pearlredlights

lol u joke.

if i pursued excellence in the stuff i did i'd be in harvard or something now LOLLLL