maybe I'm the only one but does harry also strike you as one of those ppl who never gets nervous? that enviable person who can meet and interact with literally anyone on their own and charm the ever living shit out of them? that's Harry. we all know Niall gets anxiety a bit too and I remember on graham norton thinking Niall looked a bit out of it prob due to nerves cos hello it's sir ian mckellen, and then on the contrary you have Harry who's joking around with him and being all around adorable
2/2 with this legendary actor with ease and that’s one of those moments where it clicked with me that Harry really does have ‘it’. even in pics with his idol mick Jagger he’s 2inches away from his face 😂 or like that Ronnie wood performance where he went off. I think Harry gets a little nervous during major live tv performances bc he can be hard on himself but otherwise I feel like the amount of situations that make Harry nervous are slim to none. but I would like to hear him talk about this lol
I would love to hear him talk about this too, Anon! I think Harry is someone who did get nervous and anxious about performance, and worked bloody hard to control it. In that first year of 1D it seemed like he was the most prone to anxiety of all of them. One week on X Factor he made himself sick with nerves and they weren’t sure he was going to be able to sing. And then after their first live performance on Red or Dead it was obvious he had worked himself up and the other boys’ acknowledged that this was something he was prone to.
But I think this sort of anxiety was connected to a fear of messing up his performance, not a generalised anxiety about appearing on TV or meeting people. I think I remember reading him talking about how he made a concerted effort to deal with his nerves ahead of performing, and turning them into adrenaline - maybe in the Who We Are book? He obviously decided to tackle that anxiety head-on.
Otherwise, I don’t think he had a nervous disposition at all. He has said himself that he doesn’t get nervous talking to people. Harry is very self-aware, and tbh positive affirmation over the years would help a lot with that! When you learn by experience that people find you charming, and that even when you mess up and do something stupid or dorky people still find you adorable…well, that’s a good way to address any concerns you may have about being awkward around people! :)
Like you say I’m sure he gets nervous about, say, doing justice to an important performance - but that’s healthy nerves, very different to the type of crippling anxiety that Zayn is facing or that often affects Niall.
That’s not to say he doesn’t push himself. I know I’m like a broken record, but I can’t imagine how nervous he was about auditioning for Christopher Nolan, and he still bloody did it. And as for walking on the Dunkirk set that first day…I’m still not over it, I don’t know how Harry did it!!
Anon 2: What Harry is doing right now is proving he’s not being forced to go out and make music NOW. Harry has all but disappeared from the public spotlight. He’s not even being papped walking down the street. He has been able to, since January (5 months), be lowkey, which for Harry Styles is amazing. If he was being forced to go out and make music, a contract would have been signed by now and he would be in a studio. What’s happening now for him is amazingly shrewd in many, many ways.
Yes, clever boy!!!






