there's a reason why I have a crush on characters like Eivor Varinsdóttir, Kassandra of Sparta, fem Dani Rojas, and Sevika & Vi from Arcane; they are physically fit like some of the women I've dated.
I dated a basketball player (who I met at my uni's gym), a rollerblader, and a bodybuilder who lifted weights. this explains why I haven't been interested in many of the women on HER. I'm physically active (swimming, cardio, lifting weights) and want someone who is as well.
I used to clown my sister about wanting to go to a gym to find a partner, but I get her point now lol















