This is a general reading. You pick an object that attracts you most when you are thinking about what your connection to someone is. Sometimes you might be wondering why this person has come into your life or why you keep thinking about them. You might want to know why you never get along with someone or why you're really close friends with someone. This reading is to help you figure out that connection.
As this is a general reading, I would suggest that you take what resonates. If it doesn't resonate with you, then just simply move on.
1. Microphone
2. Sponge
3. Umbrella
4. Frying Pan
1. Microphone
If you picked the microphone, then whoever you have in your mind has some past with you in your former life. They are here this lifetime to try to teach you a lesson or they are here to seek revenge. There was likely a lot of problems, anger, and frustration in the past between you and them. It's likely that you will have a lot of complications with them. You may even be attracted to them, but somehow there will be some tension between you and them. There can also be power struggles and lots of bickering. Things can also get violent, toxic, or abusive.
Whatever this relationship is, there can be a strong push and pull situation between you and them. If it's romantic, you could feel very attracted to them yet deep down you know you two aren't right for one another. Somehow there's a lot of back and forth; in romantic relationships, you and they could keep breaking up and making up.
In a non-romantic relationship, you and they can just not get along at first sight, or you two could be very close yet still have some hatred/anger/annoyance towards one another. There's a love/hate situation and there's some jealousy thrown in too.
2. Sponge
They are here to make amends for something that happened in a past life. They are also here to give you comfort and guidance during this life. You will find that they are like a sponge in that they can soak up all your negativity or thoughts and somehow guide you through your frustrations.
They are more like a mentor or a parent to you. They have a lot of knowledge to share with you. They are here to help you grow in life and push you forward. They are also supportive, yet realistic regarding your dreams. They often ground you and make sure your head isn't up in the clouds.
You will either feel a strong bond with them or a sense of security with them. Sometimes you may also feel like they're too kind or giving, almost like they've done something wrong and they're trying to make it up to you. Well, in a former life, they did wrong you or hurt you and this time, they want to make it right.
3. Umbrella
You've shared a very deep connection with them in a past life. They could have been a family member, lover, a pet, or a best friend. In this life, you feel like you two can connect easily and they seem to just get you. You feel like you can share anything with them.
If this is romantic relationship now, you both would have a strong attraction towards each other. You likely may have been separated in a past life in ways that were unexpectedly or undesirable like they either died earlier than you or you two were forced to leave one another due to circumstances out of your control like war or family disapproval. This lifetime you will want to be very close to them and will sometimes even worry whether they'll disappear suddenly one day. You may also be kind of insecure about this relationship and feel like it could be ruined easily.
If this is a family connection in this life, you are probably very close to this family member. You feel like you can rely on them and also share your thoughts with them. They also trust you and feel that they can depend on you. You two may not be very similar, but you will still share similar interests or can somehow connect easily.
4. Frying Pan
They represent someone that you'd like to be or admire. This person likely has no past life connection with you. However, they have traits that you really admire or they are someone that you wish you could become. You may be very timid and quiet, yet you want to be more in the spotlight, so you find yourself attracted to this person who embodies those traits that you'd like to see on yourself.
This person is here to motivate you or give you hope in a way. They likely will not have a romantic relationship with you. They also will probably not be close to you. They could be like a classmate that you pass by sometimes and never really talk to or they could even be a celebrity or some public figure. They won't really cross paths with you in a direct and close way. They will just be there in your mind or you'll sometimes see them from afar. They may even be a stranger who you had one brief conversation with or that just helped you briefly.
This person may push you to want to change for the better or give you some solace. They are more so to bring you some comfort during a time of distress or are there to motivate you.
