I usually don't mind my asks being answered publicly but thank you for being considerate🥺❤ Your explanation just made it so much better for me, ahh thank you!! I am actually a person who's afraid of having fun/letting loose so someone who'd help me with that would be nice indeed🥺and omg, my juno is conjunct my chiron as well, I have no idea what that means but I guess it's something with a soulmate and pain, so maybe they put us through a lot of pain/pain is involved in the relationship?🥺
Aww, I just wasn’t sure so I felt it would be best to keep private. I know for future reference now, thanks for letting me know! 👍
And yeah, I actually joined an astrology discord a few months ago (I left recently because there were so many people and it got really overwhelming 😅) because I wanted more insight into the Chiron-Juno situation! I had asked a few blogs on tumblr too. I’m not actually interested in the idea of marriage itself, but rather just a best friend for life type of relationship. I don’t like saying I’m a committment-phobe because I’m actually really insecure in relationships and expect my partner and I to be monogamous AF which makes me jealous and I know that’s a problem I need to work on 😬 But to me, marriage is security for children due to tying all your assets together too (everyone views marriage differently so I’m not saying people are right/wrong for having children married/unmarried btw! ❤️) and because once you’re married, everyone suddenly expects you to pop out babies and quit your job and that’s not what I’d like lol. Maybe its different in Switzerland though? Irish mothers (we call them ‘mammies’) are very much part of the culture though and its considered weird to be in a long-term relationship without children or marriage 😕 I have an aunt who is in her 40′s and she’s with her boyfriend since their mid-20′s and they’ve never married, yet all everyone does is ask when they will do it but they both love their jobs (he’s a painter and she works in animation) and travel lots together and idk but that’s closer to my ideal than ‘settling’ and I think my Sagittarius Descendant agrees too 😅 Do you think your culture or perception of nearby relationships have influenced your thoughts about marriage?
Also, the placement can bring some good. It can signify that there will be a long-term or ‘fated’ (my Vertex is very close by, but I think yours is in the same house as Juno so its similar too!) relationship where the other person will actually help heal any pain that arised from relationships - this is especially true if one of their personal planets or angles is conjunct, such as the Ascendant, or Venus. The house its in shows what you need from a partner but might have found you were declined before. For me, its the 6th house so I would need a partner who’s attentive and hardworking (Virgo rules 6th) and that brings emotional and sexual intensity and monogamy (Scorpio Vertex + Chiron + Juno) to the relationship, creating a power couple type of relationship where you cooperate as a day-to-day team and find love and care in the little everyday things (6th daily life + acts of service) to be fundamental to a happy relationship. This made complete sense to me because the past two relationships I’ve had were with guys whose lack of ambition or work ethic really clashed with own values and I never felt that they took my work and studies as seriously as I did, especially since they’re such a big part of my life. I didn’t feel as supported as I would have liked, and likewise, I wasn’t able to support them as well as I could have because I disagreed with their values too since they were more laidback about work and didn’t stress out too much about stuff like attendance or grades just so long as they passed (for me, ‘just passing’ is a personal failure lmao). Likewise, it frustrated me when they would openly make comments about other girls appearances because I expected them to only be interested in me, which sounds so possessive 💀
Interestingly, their temperaments were both different though. The first (Sag Sun/Libra Moon/Scorpio Mercury/Libra Venus/Aqua Mars) was very much a joker type who thought ‘no’ meant ‘change my mind’ and he tried to get along with my family and friends (he called my sister fat though and flirted with my cousin over text and asked if he could meet her in person... but they all liked him so it was hard telling them what he was like in private💀). And the second (Libra Sun/Cap Moon/Scorpio Mercury/Virgo Venus/Cap Mars) was more of a tsundere who didn’t really make an effort with my family at all and didn’t get why they were important to me (my Venus in 4th is crying lol). My mum still says she prefers the first one because of that but I don’t prefer either of them 😂 If your Chiron and Juno are in Sagittarius, what values do you think align with what you’ve been missing before? And with which house themes? 👀 Your Descendant can also play a role in what you need in someone else~
also this answer got so long and self-centered, I’M SO SORRY LAURA PLS KILL THE LEO SUN AND SUN DOM IN ME 😭😭😭
