new p1ssslut here x any tips? I don't know anyone irl who shares this so I feel pretty alone
hi lovely <3 this has been sitting in my asks for well over two months so you're probably not as new anymore (very sorry 😭) but i'd still be happy to share some stuff! ofc the first thing i'm gonna tell you is to stay safe; holding your pee for over ten hours can put you at risk of a UTI and other health problems (though i think the time amount varies from person to person), don't drink too much water (CDC reccomends no more than six cups in one sitting), make sure to clean yourself after holds if you wet your clothes/bare skin, all that jazz. but assuming you already know the basics, i guess the biggest tip i can give you is to be kind to yourself. which i know sounds like so basic and corny buuuut this kink can be super isolating especially offline and a lot of shame can surround it. personally i've been lucky enough to not feel weird or "gross" about liking piss but i do experience a lot of shame about just like... being sexual in general, yk? so i want you and everyone else who's either new to the kink or struggles with that kind of thing to remember that if you aren't harming anyone else then there isn't anything wrong with what you're doing. the best way for me to look at it is, even if it is "weird" or "gross", it's literally no one's business but mine (and the people i post it to lmfao) so that's important to keep in mind. you're not bad or wrong for having this kink, no one is entitled to know if you don't feel comfortable with it, and, if there's some circumstance where someone does take issue with it, that's their own problem because they're the ones inserting themselves into your personal business. that's the real weirdo behavior.
anywayyy most of my advice is just based around what i do personally so take the rest with a grain of salt because everyone has different yucks and yums when it comes to omo. if you like holding but get grossed out by actual piss itself (like me, unfortunately) and/or don't like the cleanup, i'd reccomend holding in the shower. that way you can just clean up in there, plus the warm water makes it sooo much more of a challenge. when it comes to navigating kind tumblr i've found that blocking tags + accounts that are related to your limits is your best friend; don't ever feel guilty or bad about not interacting with content you don't want to see. or people in general. no one on or off this app is owed your time or energy if you don't want to give it simply because you happen to share a kink. also if you're afab (idk if it's the same for amab), having an orgasm with a full bladder is TOP TIERRRR, would 100% reccomend. i myself am more into the desperation/wetting side of omo so i don't rlly have anything to add for other aspects of the kink. everything i've read (yes i did research for you anon 🥰) says that it's unlikely for urine to do bodily harm if you like getting pissed on/into or pissing on/into someone else; i assume it's the same for oral consumption but i'd suggest you read up on that yourself to make sure. honestly just do that in general; make sure you do proper research and figure out the safety of things before you try them yourself.
that's basically all i've got and i'm sorry it was so many words for a whole lot of nothing 😭 i'm bad at advice. but i wish you the best and i hope you have found/can find some sense of community or at least feel less "othered" on here. i've had this account for almost a year now (which is wild) and even though i still get really anxious whenever i actually interact with people on here, it's helped me a lot to know that there ARE people who like the same things i do. you're not alone, and if you ever feel weird or gross or bad for liking the things that you like, take a scroll through my page. if there's one thing i want from my page (other than a place to be horny), it's to let other people know that liking (harmless) "gross" things is okay and there's at least one person out there who's just as "gross", if not worse, as they are 💕💕 big fan of making people feel less alone, especially when it comes to omo/kink stuff in general.