it’s probably The Worst thing to come out of the entire mogai movement tbh. like, i always knew i was gay but the idea that you could be gay but also NOT be at the same time plus the whole thing about ~monosexuals~ being inherently Bad (combined with the Boys-Are-The-Worst-esque posts) sure didn’t do me any favors lmao. also trying to divide my attraction strictly into Romantic and Sexual led me to think i was ace for years because it was easier to just repress that instead of analyzing why, as a non-straight and non-cis person, i might have complicated feelings about physical intimacy!!! and i mean i was a kid!!!!! it’s normal not to be interested in sex when you’re 14 years old!!!!!! but now thanks to all that bullshit i still don’t have my shit figured out at 22