Wedding Planning Woes
Okay I just need to vent.
I am part of this wedding app called Wedding Wire and I am just appalled at the things some people are saying.
If you only offer a cash bar you're being cheap. If you can't afford an open bar you need to cut the guest list to accomodate all of your guests drinking habits. If you recieve no gift from a guest you still have to send them a thank you card for attending YOUR wedding. Your MOH and bridal party don't have to do a damn thing for you and if you ask them to and they say no, you're not allowed to get upset. If you don't have diet and regular options for all guests you're being a bad host. If you set up a honeyfund you're being money hungry. If your family members offer to make the food, no one will eat it and you're being irresponsible for not having proper catering.
But my favorite so far?
If you got married in a courthouse with one witness and you were both in jeans rushing to get there, that was your wedding and your ONLY wedding. You are NOT allowed to have another "wedding" or a bachelorette party, bridal shower, ceremony, wear a white dress or anything no matter what the circumstance is. However, if you want to have a "vow renewal" you can, but don't expect any gifts, parties or money.
You know what? FUCK that.
If I want to have a wedding in a hotel, have my mom make the food, wear a $5000 gown, hire an officiant, write my own vows and have no alcohol, who the fuck is going to stop me? Thats right. No one. So honestly get over your damn selves. WEDDINGS ARE ABOUT THE PEOPLE GETTING MARRIED. END OF STORY.