#weddingetiquette

[anonymok15]

Another rarepair,hmmm what do we think of this one?

I guess you could say they..fancy each other.

(get it?)

[cynthiareccordweddings]

How Much Should You Spend on a Wedding Gift? 

11 Etiquette Tips

All your wedding gift etiquette questions — answered.

BROOKE BOBB

October 21, 2019

Wondering how much to spend on a wedding gift? It's a fair question — as wedding invites start to pile up, dollar signs might also start to flash. The idea of having to spring for flights, hotels, bridesmaid dresses, and then — on top of everything — a wedding present for each occasion can become a serious source of stress for wedding guests. Complicating matters more is the seeming lack of concrete wedding gift etiquette. Questions, like how much to give for a wedding gift, start to come up. When do you buy a gift? Can you buy gifts outside the registry? Is giving cash gauche? Here, answers to these questions and more, with expert insights from Kylie Carlson, the CEO of the International Academy of Wedding & Event Planning. 

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[saltybroad]

The Case for the Unplugged Wedding

You’re getting married. You’re excited. Your friends are excited. You want the world to know that you found the one. I get it. If you can’t contain your elation and you’re the kind of person that’s going to take a selfie at the altar, then I don’t think this post with resonate with you.

On the other hand, if you don’t feel that burning desire to alert the Twitterverse and the Facebookland the very second you have legalized your nuptials, then consider the unplugged alternative. There are many reasons to have an unplugged ceremony—top of list list seems to be encouraging your guests to be present and distraction-free while you and your partner formalize your commitment to each other. From my perspective as a photographer, if you invested in hiring a professional, you want to set them up for success. The pictures should show the smiling faces of your guests—not outstretched arms with that little glowing rectangle blocking their expression. Who knows, unplugging may even spark conversation and new friendships between your guests!

But it’s not just cell phones that impose distractions. An uncle with a new fangled camera gadget or your friend who’s trying to develop his portfolio likely will not have the skillset to get the shots without interfering with your chosen photographer. Avoid any awkwardness by letting those folks know that the pictures are being handle by a pro.

Stephanie Diaz Eldredge wedding planner with Cape Cod Celebrations says that unplugged ceremonies are continuing to grow in popularity, “In our ever-connected world, guests can actually find it refreshing to be reminded to be present for the marriage moment instead of watching it via a handheld device.”

Not everyone thinks unplugged weddings are a great idea. I have seen comments from brides in wedding planning forums declaring the practice “obnoxious” and that since your guests are helping you make the event possible by making travel arrangements, bringing you gifts and giving you their personal time, they should have the freedom to take their own photos.

For sure, this is the couple’s call to make. There’s no blanket approach for every wedding but, in my humble opinion, looking out at a giant sea of iPads and droids, doesn’t strike the right tone for a romantic occasion and your guests should respect your wishes simply because it’s your special day!

Here are a few ways to convey your wishes to your guests in a polite way with a chalkboard or sign describing your requests.

Welcome to our unplugged wedding. We’ve hired a professional photographer to capture this special occasion so we ask that you kindly refrain from using your handheld devices. We want to see your smiling faces in our photos!

We invite you to be fully present at our ceremony, and respectfully request that all cameras and phones be turned off. We look forward to sharing our professional photos with you after the big day.

Oh snap! Thank you for coming! We have just one plea, please help us keep our ceremony cell phone free. Our I-dos are unplugged, but our reception is not. Once we finish the first dance you’re free to take all the shots!

You can also ask your officiant to make an announcement about your unplugged policy and also remind folks to turn off devices.

Even if you are clear about your preferences, you should expect that some of your guests will defy you! I once witnessed another guest obliviously shoot constant cell phone video during a ceremony against the wishes of the bride and groom. Eventually, the bride’s brother went up to the offender and asked her to put down her phone. If you feel strongly about unplugging. have a designated person to remind people to of your request. You don’t need anyone upsetting you on your special day. Take that 25-30 minutes to unplug and connect the old-fashioned way. Your photographer will thank you and you’ll see a more faces in your photos.

Special thanks to Ashley Green Photography and Gretchen Ertl Photography for contributing photos.

[the-royal-butler]

When you are given an engagement ring, remember, it is not yours until after the marriage. If the promise is broken the ring is returned at once. #WeddingEtiquette https://www.instagram.com/the_royal_butler/p/BtTMPIygtvx/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1qxa8d2c6njef

[belladeuxevents-blog]

Bad behavior among wedding guests doesn't always happen but is a possibility. Ready yourself and your bridal party on 4 ways to deal with some bad behaviors.

4 Ways to Help You Deal with Poor Guest Behavior

Manners are sets of acceptable social behavior – how we are expected to carry ourselves, and how we expect others to act in return. And weddings have lots of expectations – err, manners! For guests who are not up to speed on what those are or how to read the more subtle signals, there are a few ways you can help steer them on the right path. And what happens when an attendee steps afoul of wedding-day manners? Generally, it’s rude to correct someone publicly, but sometimes the moment calls for diplomatic action. Addressing the Dress CodeNot everyone’s interpretation of dress codes – let alone style or taste – is the same. From guest apparel that is too casual, revealing, or even over-dressed, sometimes people miss the mark. To clarify what you mean, first, make sure the style of your invitation reflects the level of formality you are planning. Second, include mention of desired dress, but preferably on the enclosure, rather than on the invite itself. Wording can vary from the direct to the delicate: “Semi-formal attire,” “reception to be held on lawn” [read: ladies, beware of high heels!], and perhaps for a beach wedding, “flip-flops welcome.” More details can ...

[anymal]

Wedding Planning Woes

Okay I just need to vent.

I am part of this wedding app called Wedding Wire and I am just appalled at the things some people are saying.

If you only offer a cash bar you're being cheap. If you can't afford an open bar you need to cut the guest list to accomodate all of your guests drinking habits. If you recieve no gift from a guest you still have to send them a thank you card for attending YOUR wedding. Your MOH and bridal party don't have to do a damn thing for you and if you ask them to and they say no, you're not allowed to get upset. If you don't have diet and regular options for all guests you're being a bad host. If you set up a honeyfund you're being money hungry. If your family members offer to make the food, no one will eat it and you're being irresponsible for not having proper catering.

But my favorite so far?

If you got married in a courthouse with one witness and you were both in jeans rushing to get there, that was your wedding and your ONLY wedding. You are NOT allowed to have another "wedding" or a bachelorette party, bridal shower, ceremony, wear a white dress or anything no matter what the circumstance is. However, if you want to have a "vow renewal" you can, but don't expect any gifts, parties or money.

You know what? FUCK that.

If I want to have a wedding in a hotel, have my mom make the food, wear a $5000 gown, hire an officiant, write my own vows and have no alcohol, who the fuck is going to stop me? Thats right. No one. So honestly get over your damn selves. WEDDINGS ARE ABOUT THE PEOPLE GETTING MARRIED. END OF STORY.

[coolpaige1234567-blog]

Everyone loves to be invited to the wedding of their loved ones. But from time immemorial, we have seen the same way of addressing the invitees. The card eithe…

[sandymalone]

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