#pls don't interact

[random-nameidklol]

Friendly reminder: ADHD is not something to go "haha so quirky so relatable" to. "I have ADHD that means I can't sit still I make random cute noises and I'm loud haha--" No. Okay? Yes; there might be people who have those symptoms, I ain't denying it, BUT ADHD is, aside from this, much more nuanced than that (you also get fatigue, restlessness, you hyperfocus, not to be confused with hyperfixate, you get anxiety, lack of motivation,...) ADHD doesn't just turn you into a quirky sunshine person who's "not like the others" and whatnot. It can be pretty freaking stupid. And the feeling of not being good enough or being annoying unless you take your pills is equally stupid, talking from experience. I am NOT saying that if you happen to have ADHD and you especially have these symptoms particularly bad, you are faking or something, don't misunderstand me. But there are TikToks that go, "10 signs you have ADHD :3333" and then spew out the biggest, most stereotypical symptoms ever. It generalizes ADHD so much and I hate it! ADHD is complex. And if you have it, it makes you complex!! It doesn't just turn you into a weird and quirky alien.

[enkelipoeka]

Ok some Real Talk.

I feel like realizing that I am, in fact, asexual explains so much to me. It made me realize that I experience sexual attraction to (real)people extremely rarely. It made me realize that I thought I was lesbian instead of pansexual just because I didn’t experience sexual attraction towards my ex-boyfriend. It explains why, the first time I had sex I felt off and maybe even a little put off by sexual acts, though at the time I just thought it was because of inexperience. It also explains my very low sex drive and overall reluctance to initiate sexual situations, and why I prefer cuddling. I think it also explains why I prefer giving than receiving in bed.

Anyways, thank you for coming to my TED talk, this has been Immy’s 3am Reflections on Sexuality also I’m ace

[gofuckyourselfwithyouratombomb]

Did something fucking stupid and faced consequences for it. Not feeling great about myself right now.

[rhubarb-newt]

like I know better than to just vent at people and dump all my problems all over them but like... none of my friends ever even say hello or ask how i'm doing so i feel like making generalized kinda toxic posts is my only way of actually expressing myself

i just don't know how i'm supposed to think anyone cares about me if they make no effort to be a part of my life

[pinkviper]

I have nowhere else to vent about this so whatever, but catch me sobbing over my wedding because I’ve just been informed that I probably can’t have it at the place I told everyone already where it was going to be because my fiancé's family drinks too much fucking alcohol that the place is worried about liability shit so now I have to have it somewhere else and idk where and my fiancé won’t fucking talk to me about money in regard to it bc he just has no fucking clue how much wedding stuff costs he’s just like does $500 sound good like NO WTF ARE YOU ON and it has to be a place to hold deadass 150 people because his side of the family just expects that we’ll invite everyone and his dad already invited fucking neighbors and shit that my fiancé doesn’t even know and I’m still trying to find a job and now my wedding dress that I bought with the idea of the venue in mind might not even fit whatever new venue we choose and my mom just texts me shit out of the blue with no context so when I text back that I’m confused she’s like “why are you so snippy?” when she was like “let’s go look at new venues” when up until an hour ago I had no clue that our venue was no longer looking like an option so I was just like “Why would we go look at options? I thought we’d already decided? I keep telling people it’s at this venue because that’s where it’s at?” She calls me and is like “why are you so snippy?” LIKE I AM CONFUSED, “oh we discussed it this morning already” OH THANK YOU BUT I WAS NOT THERE??? How tf would I know that the place is now worried about that if nobody has fucking said anything to me??? So because I’m just like “Why would we go check out new venues?” that’s snippy because they’ve had this conversation about the venue & liability that I was not involved in and now I’m frustrated that nobody told me this and I’m so not in the mood to deal with the fact that I have to fucking tell my fiancé that either he has to cough up more money for more people at a different venue or he can fucking tell his parents they have to and tbh I don’t know half his family they just all expect me to provide them with free booze and food because that’s what they do and I am at my wit’s fucking end with them tbh and just

[ravenbrenna09]

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[skiesfall-from-the-stars]

help nothing feels real i can't walk i hate this i hate this i don't understand what's going on nothing is real helpim not here i don't exist i don't understand i hate this im not real i want to feel real i don't get it i don't understand I'm not here im not real this is bad im sorry

[spicysockdragon]

you ever look at ur brain like woah guys tf is goin on back there,,, bc same this shit wild