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photos from saturday of pmx! pictured are:

rosencrantz-minus-guildenstern as sollux with her amazing computing devices, amuletkitora as john killing it at karaoke with lacrimosa!!, dont-mess-with-an-aries and ? as jade and jane, ? as jake, ros again as sol, general-homestuck-trash as tz and ? from panel as tz, teasyntara as a really cute kankri, ? as pregnancy meme hiccup, and iscariotmovesme as victory curls kyle.

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so this happened

you carry 6 weed in your back pocket at pmx and all of a sudden alternian cops are all over you

tz i think youre doing the pat down wrong sollux do you guys even know how to use those guns holy fuck

#pmxstuck #pmxstuck2014 #pmxstuck2k14 #homestuck cosplay #trollcops #dave strider #dave english #strider on the road #terezi pyrope #sollux captor #libertylikes #rosencrantz-minus-guildenstern #iheartpkmn

so I had been at PMX

Most of you probably know me as the twig Dave English (the nerd with the unpainted guns who kept throwing them accidentally whilst practicing spinning them or dropping them. I work better with swords tbh) or the cut neck Dave Strider.

Now, a lot of the time outside of the cosplay community i identify as a girl because I cannot really hide my chest that often without suffering damage to my ribs (binders shouldnt be worn more than 8 hours and I have a 12 hour to 14 hour day usually). And since I don't bind often, I get compliments and told I'm a cute girl. Now that's nice since people don't know me and I cannot expect them to be able to know what I am.

For clarification, I recently discovered I am genderfluid. I can be either gender, sometimes nonbinary but that is still new ground that I am not fully read-up on so I will not say that I am nonbinary.

Well, for the very first time while I was at PMX, people asked me for my pronouns. More specifically, my fellow Homestucks asked me.

I have never felt so happy in my entire life. I told people who asked that I identify as both a girl and a guy, depending on if I'm in cosplay or binding or not. And people started using he/him pronouns when addressing me because I asked.

If you don't understand, (if you do, then ilu) I have always hated just being called a girl since I was 10. Since I was 10. For years I have been wishing I could confuse someone with my gender and maybe, hopefully, get them to use male pronouns.

And now some people voluntarily asked me what pronouns I use and used the ones I politely and nervously asked them to use. This may be an insignificant conversation to those who are confident in their gender, and I certainly do not wish to force my pronouns down some stranger's throat for my own comfort, but this

This gave me hope.

That maybe someday I can be able to use him/he pronouns more than her/she pronouns. That I can confuse people not for the sake of making them uncomfortable (as I always clarify and thank them), but for the sake of maybe one day being confident enough to take the next big leap.

Thank you guys.