#pos ex

[reecedarlene]

Tarot cards last night told me to do what makes me happy, listen to my feelings and emotions and take control of my schedule.  So:

I’m going to be getting a PPO against my piece of shit ex

I’m going to be getting my hair done for the first time in over a fucking year

I’m going to get a tattoo at the end of this month in memory of a friend who passed

I’m going to go to Pride festival with a friend who’s always wanted to go

And I’m going to do my damn best to be fucking happy.

[wonderfulmangotea]

So a bill came in from a bank that I used to bank at 4 years ago

$391 from when my ex over drafted my account

And never paid me back

So o gave it to him and he threw it back and said

"Pay me back for your car if you're going to be like that"

Ummm first of all you OFFERED to help with my car you said nothing about paying you back, whereas the 800 you owe my dad for you drugs and bullshit and the almost 400 from my old bank are things that were clearly expected to be repaid

Fuck lending him any more money

[marvelousmotherofmayhem]

Its raining like crazy outside again tonight, which I am totally okay with.. I love the rain. I had a nice day dealing with what I believe to be food poisoning but I only had Gray through the worst of it and he cuddled with me and napped with me all day on the couch. My other two monsters got home from their dads tonight and I was so happy to see their cute faces.. and then I started listening to how their weekend was... Then I got mad and had to do all I could to not say anything negative about their father in front of them. My 4 year old is having potty training issues, I have spoken to his Dr about it and he says its not time to worry just yet and that I just need to be supportive and not mean to him about it.. Well his dad isnt all that great about not being a dick and tells my poor boy that if he doesn't stop having accidents when he is with him that I will never let them spend time with him again. My daughter told him that I wouldn't do that and he flat out told her that she was wrong. Uhm fuck you buddy, I dont punish my kids like that and will let them decide they dont want to see you all on their own. He isnt paying me child support, he isn't spending much time with them when they are there, He is having his dad watch them at night so he can go out and drink and hang out with his friends... Yeah.. what a real winner.

Thank god I divorced his ass and ended up with a real man.

[violentkids]

i never thought that i would be this strong without you. 

[marvelousmotherofmayhem]

How I can tell I need a vacation and lots of sleep... So the ex moved back in here almost two weeks ago with me having literally zero warning. I got home Sunday night and he had dumped his gf and had moved his stuff over while I wasn't home. Okay, what ever, I can live with this situation. But here we are, for over a week, he has been trying to sneak a new woman in here with out me knowing. To bad I am not a complete idiot. My issue here is if I wake up in the middle of the night, or if my kids wake up in the middle of the night and there is a strange woman coming out of the bathroom or something it's not going to end well. The kids will be horribly confused AGAIN and I will be pretty angry. Just wish he had the decency to give me the heads up. But, he is the same guy who cheated on me for over a year, had his dad sites money for us to go to counseling even though he knew he didn't want to fix anything, and has me meet the other woman telling me they were just friends. Don't know why I expect decent human things from him when there is pussy involved.