I’ve been hearing people say that figuring out if your trans is more about seeking joy then spiraling about how much you hate being your assigned gender
Such as, if I were to say I hate my long hair and boobs I should think more like “hypothetically, how would I feel without my long hair and boobs?”
Then I imagine myself in a few years with short hair and a flat chest and I look so happy.
Also my insomnia if fucking killing me I can’t fall asleep :(












