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yikes..... they also compared """consensual""" incest to gay marriage and like..... yikes!!!!!

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Update on the whole pride-flags-for-us fiasco

Still pretty sick and tired but looks like the anons I got about 4chan were just trolls trying to scare me into deleting, which is rude, but hey, at least it motivated me to up my security and change my passwords. I try to avoid talking about discoursey stuff here but I think this is important so fair warning ahead if you don’t want to see that.

So it looks like what happened is that there was an internal coup of some sorts. Mod Ita and Celes succesfully managed to kick Mod Dave off. He was the main mod responsible for the downhill turn PFFU took with its “pro LGBT anti MOGAI” stuff as well as a lot of aphobia and other misinformation. 

From Celes’s blog: “Mod Ita joined in a plan to take it down due to the offensive MOGAI content. They brought me on board. Originally I was all for this plan, so I accept some responsibility. Then they brought a few new people on in order to aid in deleting everything and trying to kick Mod Dave off.” [Link]

I don’t really know the full intentions of Ita and Celes (or if Ita is even on the new mod team), but the blog is back up, and I’m not sure which way theyre trying to steer the blog but judging by the above and the posts on the (very eye-straining) redone blog, I worry that they might continue with the “LGBT not MOGAI” theme. I don’t want to write too much more on the subject since it’s mostly just speculation right now and I want to wait for them to post their explanation page before jumping to any conclusions.

From a recent post on PFFU: “Hey guys! This blog is back now! And primarily for positivity! We’re working on an explanation page to tell y'all what just happened” [Link]

I had been communicating with Ita regarding pride stuff for a few months before this but haven’t talked to them for a few weeks before this all happened. They’ve been very helpful with finding flags/terms I’ve missed and seemed very pro-MOGAI and they’ve wanted to be a mod on my blog for a long time as well but I didn’t want to let them due to some ....problematic opinions they have on some subjects. They’ve since disappeared since this all happened.

(This is also why I’m hesitant on adding new mods even though I need help because I don’t want something like this to happen to this blog)

I think this is about all I can say right now (and all I have the mental spoons for since its 1am and im exhausted) I’ll see if I can get to some other asks regarding flags but no promises for tonight or tomorrow. 

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Some more pffu updates and whatever

Gonna keep these under the cut in case people don’t want to see it, but I still should be talking about it to keep people updated and whatnot.

So it looks like my fears were realized and pffu has become even more “pro LGBT anti MOGAI” than it was with Dave as a mod. It makes me really sad because I knew Ita talked about hoping to fix it one day so it’d be pro-MOGAI again but then the complete opposite happened. There’s also no update on what happened to them either. 

It’s really frustrating since they still have so many followers who are now seeing their identities get erased by a blog that used to support them as well as harming new people who are looking for terms to describe themselves. 

@nbandproud replied to your post “Update on the whole pride-flags-for-us fiasco”

Ohh my gosh. 1) Thanks for the update! Really, I can't thank you enough. 2) I thought Dave had more power than anyone else there, so I was like "how the fuck did Dave get kicked", but it seems like he willingly backed off. Cool. 3) There are a lot of posts on the blog, so I can't reach the bottom. I'm curious to see if earlier posts were deleted. Gonna have to check that out later.

Yeah all earlier posts were deleted so it’s only posts from the new mods and such.

Anon message:

All I know of pride-flags-for-us is that Mod Ita and Mod Celes admitted to being trolls who joined the blog in order to get it eventually deleted. Mainly they targeted the blog because Dave wanted to convert the blog to pro-LGBT instead of pro-MOGAI (even though he was still very pro-MOGAI and yet also aphobic, he just tried to asskiss both sides, fricking hypocrite). So I think you should be safe since you're still very much pro-MOGAI!

Yeah now that I know it wasn’t actual hacking and just them taking advantage of tumblr’s terrible mod system I’m not worried anymore. (Well I do worry about some infiltration like that, but not about hackers coming for me like that first anon said)

Anon message (sent before these events took place I think):

I'm surprised that lgbtrainbowdolls person could mistake your dA for belonging to pride-flags-for-us. Especially since, yknow, PFFU decided to become anti-mogai pro-LGBT, but then they decided to backtrack and try to please both sides. Which makes them more pathetic imho, lmao. At least you're still willing to get flags and correct info out there. Me and plenty other people appreciate all your hard work!!

That whole blog (lgbtrainbowdolls, not pffu) is really questionable, I don’t know if they’re outright trolling but they post a LOT of misinformation RE: putting wrong names/definitions on flags. They are not a blog you should go to for information. They also put “controversial” on a lot of terms which is really skeevy imo. 

But yeah, if you’re going to try to be educational about stuff at least try to get the right info out and be open to corrections.

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How do you feel about pride-flags-for-us getting hacked n deleted???? B)

They did? Wow. I mean, the blog was beyond ridiculous and offensive, but they didn't deserve that.

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Inturgender

Inturgender: A core gender which feels soft, quiet, or subdued. May experience feelings of another gender or genders overlaying it. The name comes from the latin word "inturbidus", meaning "undisturbed, quiet.

Term coined by: Anonymous

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Color meanings: The big cyan part in the middle represents the core gender, with the colors around it being the other possible genders. The colors are softer to represent the soft nature of this gender.

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Pulvigender

Pulvigender: Your gender depends on how sexually active you are no matter the partner.

Term coined by: Anonymous

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Color meanings: Orange-red and light orange to represent sand and the green colors to represent sexual activity.

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Xumgender

Xumgender: Never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible--to find "the gender" or "the one truth"--though one will never be found due to one's neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual.

See also: Pendogender, Implagender/Inexgender.

Term coined by: @pride-flags-for-us

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Color meanings: Unknown

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Color meanings: Changed to make it look like a more standard pride design.

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Genderstrange

Genderstrange: When you can't pinpoint one word for your gender, but multiple terms almost fit.

See also: Quizgender.

Term coined by: Ade  

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Color meanings: Unknown

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