is there some specifics transits that can indicate breaking up with someone? like mars transiting my 5th or anything like that (since my venus is scorpio)? i just broke up with my bf (well ex now lol) today and i'm trying to figure this out astrologically cause i'm curious (i'm fine btw). Thanks in advance!
If you're fine then congratulations! haha. Making these kind of decisions isn't usually easy.
Transit is not a technique that works the way most people think it works. When ancient astrologers talked about transits they were usually talking about the overlap of the solar revolution chart and the nativity. If your solar return (SR) has a planet on the sign of your natal 7th house, then that planet is transiting your 7th this year. The kind of transit that you're refering to will only be relevant if the planets involved are relevant for you this year, if at least one is the current time lord.
But there's also other techniques, like primary directions or progressions (this last one more recent and less used by traditional astrologers) that can show important changes in life. The presence of these can show bigger and more impactful life-altering events than the ones only indicated by the SR.
I have an example of this in my own life: I had my biggest break up and the passing of my maternal grandmother happen on the year when Venus was the time lord by profection (12th house profection). Besides the 12th, Venus also rules my 7th house, which has to do with partners and also the maternal grandmother. On the SR that year, Mars was on top of/transiting my natal Venus, which indicates severing, separation. It doesn't help that my Venus is in the 8th, and the fact that it's in a dual/mutable sign can indicate doubling, more than one thing being signified, and of course, there were two events in the same month indicated by the same configuration/transit. The fact that I'm ruled by Mars can mean I had agency in at least one of the events: I broke up with him. But in primary directions you could also see Venus was finally setting in the western sky. Big events, changes or transitions happen when you see planets reaching and passing an angle in primary directions, and the setting of a planet usually means endings.
I could take a quick look at your chart to see if I can easily identify something if you want. And if you're interested I'm available for full readings.















