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So I have been seeing A LOT of hate for Mary concerning her "leaving" the boys. She's not handling being back very well. She's been gone for 33 years. She wasn't trying to hurt her boys. But at least Sam knew something was wrong. I wish Dean could have seen it. But the thing is Mary is in the right here. She only knows them as baby Sam and four year old Dean. She missed them growing up. These Adult versions are complete strangers to her. Just because they call her mom and are happy to see her doesn't mean it's working out well for her. She doesn't know these versions. And they aren't making it easier on her to get to know them. Dean just seems to expect her to catch on. And I love Dean but he gave her one little fill in when she came back and then nothing else. At least Sam gave her their dad's journal to help her. Dean just expects her to adjust. But you can't throw a woman into a world she barely knows after 33 years and expect her to be okay. Tell her computers do everything these days and expect her to understand. Give her a smart phone and expect her to be comfortable using it. She put the phone down to use the house phone because it's what she knows. The internet didn't exist when she was married to John. And you know Amara ripped Mary from her heaven. Which was her boys and her husband. She doesn't have her boys and her husband on earth. And before you get all upset I said she doesn't have her boys. She literally doesn't have her boys. They are there. But like I said they are complete strangers. Those aren't the boys she knows. It's like Sam, Dean and Adam. Sam and Dean cared about Adam because he was family but they couldn't love him the way they loved each other because they barely knew him. So some of the things they said or did around Adam came across as not caring for him. And some fans still believe they don't. But I don't believe that. I believe they did care as much as they could for this 'stranger.' There was no attachment to Adam the way there was with each other. Well these adult versions of her sons are like mary's "Adam." She cares and she wants to TRY to be family but there is no attachment to them. Adam was their brother but wasn't 'their brother.' These adult versions are Mary's sons but aren't 'her sons.' And if Adam was given the chance to live I truly believe they would've come around. And I think Mary can come around too. She just needs to get to know these versions. But she can't do that right now. She needs to proccess being back first. She needs to be fill in on all the gaps and not be thrown into this world with no safety net. Dean can't just say here this is a computer. This is a smart phone. I am your son be my mom. Maybe introduce yourself properly you jerk. This I'm your son isn't good enough. Because the Dean she knew was a four year old boy. Let your mom know who you are. And I don't mean just the hunting stuff. Yes you told her you still liked pie. But tell her more. Tell her if you ever been in love. Tell her the good and bad stuff. Tell her your favorite movies. Tell her any "appropriate" high school memories if you have any. I mean sure you moved around a lot. But you must have some funny school stories you could tell your mom. You know since she didn't get to see you go to school at all. Much less school for two weeks at a time. It's canon that the boys managed to find time for themselves even if rarely outside of hunting. So tell mom those things. Tell her stories about human versions of yourself. Not just the hunter versions. I mean there's two people underneath all that man pain and hunting angst. Show your mother who they are. Clue her in so that she can maybe imagine you growing up. Because she missed that. And of course she misses John. They may have been brought together by cupid as a plot to get to the world ending. But in the end they loved each other. The love became real. And they may have fought but all people who love each other can fight sometimes. She just wants her husband and boys back. And she can't have that right now. When she was in Heaven she had that. Here on earth she's sad. And no matter how hurtful her words might seem to her boys you can't blame her for that. So stop being so hard on Mary. She loves her boys and always will but she needs fill in all those years she's missed before she can just jump into being their mom. It's too hard right now.
me: people are calling mary weak
carly: what is this fandumb