well. i thought it was just Tumblr on mobile causing me not to be able to reblog the post but it looks they might've blocked me.
after i spent 45m on a response too.
they definitely seem like a totally nice, stable, happy person. waiting for me to have bad news so they can laugh and point at me.
honestly tho. what's wrong with being pro-healthy? i'm disabled. have mental illnesses. am overweight. but for some reason saying im pro-healthy humans is fatphobic and ableist?
nah fam. i think some people just are too insecure & have to cover it up with aggressive behavior. i know who i am. what i believe in.
pro-tip for anyone wanting to have a discussion with someone who might not think the same as you. most people don't like being called names. they'll usually put their hackles up if you do and instead of possibly educating someone and making a new ally you instead make them dig their heels in deeper.
you solidify in their minds that you are exactly what they imagined you to be. prove to them you aren't. surprise them into listening
it works more often than not














