#proselfshipper

[us-angels-together]

Your f/o wants to both destroy you and marry you. You drive them up the wall, you comfort them. They don't know how to feel around you. They hate how much they care for you, and want you. They find you annoying. They find they can't live without you.

Divider by @uzmacchiato

[vomitshihead]

For yumes who have “problematic” F/Os:

♡︎ Your F/O loves you no matter what, even if you can’t find a lot of content of them outside of their respective media. They know you’re doing your best

♡︎ It’s okay to not have a lot of merch of them, that never determines your love for them.

♡︎ Don’t feel bad or guilty for having an F/O who is deemed “problematic” or isn’t as well received in a fandom. You love them the most and that’s all that matters

♡︎ Don’t let people make you feel bad for loving your F/O. They’re just jealous that you’re full of fun and whimsy~!

♡︎ If you have a villainous or morally grey F/O, you are just as valid as everyone else !

♡︎ If you ever feel ashamed or embarrassed to talk about your “problematic” F/O to others, it’s okay. You are worth listening to and someone out there would be willing to listen to you. Reach out to people who share similar views as you do !

♡︎ Your “problematic” F/O would want you to look after yourself too, no matter how they say it

(Antis please dni. This post was made by a proshipper)

[tearfuldemon]

Since Valentine's is right around the corner, reblog this with a pic of your f/o and I'll assign them a bouquet of flowers they would give you! 💐

-antis DNI-

[longroundaboutpath]

Please do not use the "I 🩷 my fictional ___" templates.

Tw: mentions of CSA and abuse of animals and corpses.

Or at least, please block and avoid this person.

Seeing these templates going around proselfshipblr made me excited, because I like editing things like this with my F/Os!

However, after clicking on the OP, I found out money is a self-described "pro-c rq" and "anti-recovery".

Regardless of one's stance on whether or not being "pro-para" should be accepted in profic spaces, at the very least most pro-para people are anti-contact. However this person describes moneyself as "pro-contact", meaning money is fine with the abuse of children, corpses, and animals in real life.

It should also be mentioned that this person seems to be at least on good terms with someone who admits they are a minor. I won't mention this minor here as I don't want to draw attention to them and possibly harm them, but it's extremely concerning for a vague "anti-recovery" and "pro-contact radqueer" person to be interacting with a minor at all.

Making this very serious post because I'm certain 99% of people in proselfshipblr are just using the templates without checking who this person is, so i want to raise awareness. Please block and avoid @/safe-space-4-selfshippers.

[ofironandivory]

Fictional characters are objects. If you wouldn't call someone a predator for using a vibrator, then you shouldn't do it for fictional characters either

And if you would, please seek help.

[waruisstraightuplovin]

Your f/o is so glad to have you in their life, someone who truly understands them!!

[☆This post was made by a proshipper for proshippers, have that in mind when interacting☆]

[andylovesfoury]

you can selfship when you're 5 and you can selfship when you're 50. you can selfship at 13 and look back and cringe and get back to it at 30. you can become a selfshipper at 30. you can selfship at any age. no one cares and if they do it should be caring about how cool you are and how awesome and mega epic and total rockets your selfship lore is. and your f/o's will love you no matter what.

[proselfshipsafespace]

Paranoid selfshippers, your f/o(s) wanted me to tell you that it'll all be okay, that you're perfectly safe and they'll protect you from whatever you think might get you or whatever is troubling your mind.

I promise you, you're f/o(s) want to keep you safe and protected and want to make sure you feel comfortable and calm.