not being the friend who's too into psychoanalysis and thinks it's better than some therapists that just treat the conscious part of a person but:
I was reading with my study sisters today "Three Essays on the Theory of Sexuality (1905)" and we spoke a lot about how we can see kinks and fantasy with a non-judgmental look better than other theories, and I was writing to myself how fanfiction and what we read and write can be such a good escape for our fantasies. freud has such a good time writing about how somehow our first impressions of people and traumas always get out of our unconscious, somehow. and acting as a therapist I feel much happier studying something that doesn't see fantasy, kinks, fanfiction, as something "awful and anormal".
once I had the awful experience to speak briefly with a friend how I read dead dove and cnc and she was very shocked and asked if my analyst knew about it. like... bitch please let me and my fantasy alone?
anyways just LOVE dead dove, LOVE cnc, LOVE my kinks, LOVE being a freak and speak this word in a way that I won't hide my own way of being. and I love freud and psychoanalysis and being a therapist!
