entp - isfj duality: why these two sexually compatible too?
WHY entps are compatible with isfjs sexually? because entps do not value / like se so they don't like to spend unnecessary physical effort during sex as well. i mean they might and i have as an entp but that was just to impress my partner and give her more pleasure. you know, you are mine now! sex animal! rawr! etc. but if they are true to themselves and if i am honest, that doesn't work for me because clearly i am acting when i do shit like that and i can't get in the zone while acting and actually enjoy the moment sensually.
se is entp's "role function" in socionics. you can also think it as a "show off" function, that kind of role. the role entp feels like he must play. the role entp feels as though "cool".
isfjs are even more sensual and traditional so that's a match. isfj wants to be touched in a soft, lovey-dovey way. neither of these types are forceful. sensory forcefulness, suddenness and jerkyness just throws them off their si sensuality and si focus.
they need to relax, they need to get comfortable, there should be a lot of foreplay, things should progress gradually and there should be full body contact, i would argue. what i mean by full body contact is this: for example doggy style would be a minimal body contact sex position but in missionary there's a lot more skin contact.
an even better position is when the female lies down on her belly and male lies down on her.
then during this, if entp gives his isfj fe compliments in the form of whispers in the ear, then these two psychologically connects too. maybe something like: oh baby you are driving me crazy with your smell or something. or with your little butt or something.
is this a typology post or an erotic story? haha.