hey uhh idk if i’m allowed to ask this but, is there a term for when you have a sexuality but you refuse to label it? i used to ID as bi but the BaBs have made me hella uncomfy with that label, and i’m just not pan, so i’ve just been saying i’m homoromantic and leaving my sexuality out of it.
idk what the babs are but they sound like assholes, so first, you shouldn’t let other people ruin your sexuality for you. That being said, maybe Pomosexual? There’s two definitions:
1) An orientation where one denies or does not fit any labels for a particular kind of attraction. For example, someone who is pomosexual may or may not feel sexual attraction, but is not interested in specifying whether they feel it, and to whom. 2) ‘Not straight’. A label for not wanting or needing a precise label.












