At the retreat, I was given a chance to share a few tools from the Quaker toolkit. I got a chance to offer a workshop on something I call spiritual accompaniment. (Quakers call it something else―eldering―but that word has a completely different connotation than it does in Pagan circles.)
One of the mistakes I see Pagans making, as a group, is that we confuse talking a lot with getting a lot done. There is a kind of centering into the spiritual heart of a community that can be completely silent and yet is so deep that it helps to center everyone in the room. I don’t have a Pagan vocabulary for this yet, but I have certainly seen Pagans who have a gift for it. But where Quakers celebrate this kind of gift, among Pagans it is almost always invisible.