Hi tumblr I am now dating the rabbinical student I talked about. They're really adorable and כ'האָב שוין אָנגעהויבן צו כאַפּן געפֿילן and they are the first frum person I've ever dated which is really awesome! I can already see some 'divergences' (to use the most conciliatory Marxist language I can) around me being a binary trans woman and them being a very non-binary person (differences in trans politics) and their religiousness being less intellectually and culturally motivated than mine. But whatever I'm actually happy enough now to not obsess over them and let things develop without undue neurosis. Yay!
Also in the future when I talk about the people I'm dating I will use the monikers "rabbinical student" "college student" and "big-name online feminist".