Male privilege exists. It's not the only kind of privilege out there in society, we have to remember intersectionality, but it exists. Privilege for being attracted to men does not exist.
There is no "attraction to men" privilege. Shaming people for being attracted to men does nothing to pop male privilege or take on patriarchy, it only props up misogyny and homophobia.
Women's sexuality is objectified by our society. Women are often shamed no matter what they do and women's sexuality is treated like it should be a tool for men, without autonomy or internal feelings from women. Cis straight women have straight privilege, but their sexuality is not catered to like cis straight men's. Bi/pan/queer/etc women who are attracted to men face misogyny, slut-shaming, homophobia, and biphobia. They deserve more support from the LGBTQ+ community.
Men who love men constantly face homophobia and shaming for their love for men. It's endemic to our society and it's not okay to perpetuate no matter who you are. Queer love between men deserves celebration and acceptance.
Nonbinary people have all kinds of love and attraction and might face all kinds of BS from society for it. Nonbinary love, attraction, and identity should be respected and celebrated. Nonbinary people who love men are never less nonbinary or less queer for it.
Everyone who's attracted to men faces oppression because it's only cis straight men who's sexuality is celebrated. Lesbian, wlw, and nlw sexuality also deserves celebration, but that doesn't require putting down other people. Shaming attraction to men only ever perpetuates oppression.
Because of oppression and toxic masculinity many people attracted to men feel conflicted about it, but it's never the attraction itself that's the problem. The love and attraction someone feels for men deserves support, celebration, healing, or whatever they need. Acting like attraction to men is bad because it makes people vulnerable in our messed up society is skirting victim blaming. Whether or not someone is pursuing or dating men or ever intends to, they should feel free and whole in expressing whatever attraction they have for men.
