#queerventing

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So I felt with really bad internalized biphobia for a long time, I felt I was a failed lesbian, most of my friends were mspec with a female preference, and I was way more into dudes but I felt ashamed about it. At one point I identified as an mspec lesbian, now I feel weird about talking about it because I know people are going to use it against that mspec lesbians even though I’m like one person most of them aren’t like my experience idk I just feel weird. In the words of Neil Cicierega, I just had to share with someone

[queerventing]

I don't know how strong it is, or if it's even there, but I feel like there is quite a bit of overlap among the anti-twink crowd, the censorship/anti-ship crowd, and the conservative crowd. In that it's like, "don't be a gay stereotype! Don't enjoy casual sex or be feminine, because you have to be MY idea of a Perfect Gay Man or you'll be a bad representation of millions of strangers that you don't know and the cishets will hate us even more. And you'll singlehandedly will bring the AIDS epidemic back."

[queerventing]

ok so two of my friends are dating, they’re both girls and some how one of my friends sister found out and texted a homophobic friend abt it and now I am kinda spiraling bc both of their parents are slightly homophobic and I’m worried that I won’t be able to see my friends bc of their parents

i hope everything turns out okay!!