#radfemisms

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I'm annoyed as hell with all the radfems screeching that no one took the Neil Gaiman accusations seriously until now when that's absolutely not true???? People were shocked and devastated months ago when the news dropped. A video essay called "when your hero is a monster" was released a month BEFORE the more "official" news came out and corroborated the stories.

He'd already gone silent on tumblr, his main social media, because people were turning against him.

Good god, the need to complain truly does always outweigh reality with these so-called "feminists" who really couldn't give less of a shit about the victims and their treatment.

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Radfems believe all men are evil and dangerous and shouldn't be listened to up until one agrees with them

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Terfs are so interesting shshshhdhfhh

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I swear to god you can never win with radfems and TERF's lol. If you're a woman who likes traditional feminine things you're just following the patriarchy's gender roles for women and have internalized misogyny, if you're a tomboy woman who likes more masculine things you're just a pick me trying to suck up to men and you have internalized misogyny. If you're a man you're evil as soon as you're concieved and are biologically programmed to want to assault any female you see, if you're a woman you'll have to follow all of their stupid "how to not have internalized misogyny" rules and if you don't they'll bully you

(because radfems are only feminists when it comes to women they approve of, if you're any different from that you are an internalized misogynist and handmaiden of the patriarchy!! How dare you be your own person and not have the exact same opinions as them! They're totally not like the sexists who also try to make women act and think exactly how they want and not let them be their own person)

If you're a transgender woman you were born male meaning as soon as you were concieved you want to assault any female you see and you're just pretending to be a woman so you can go into womens spaces and perv on them (or if the radfem is "trans inclusive" they'll make up some bullshit where "Oh if you're a transgender woman as soon as you transition all of your urges to assault women are magically washed away"), if you're a transgender man you're just an extreme pick me who only transitioned not due to gender dysphoria but because you want to avoid the patriarchy or whatever, they'll also probably treat you like a baby for some reason (or if the radfem is "trans inclusive" they'll either exclude you from the man hating because "Oh well you're different than the other men cause you know what its like to be a woman" or they'll include you in their man hating because "trans men are men, and I hate men, go die you evil man, the day you transitioned was the day your brain magically got those evil urges to assault women!!!")

If you're a woman and you try to bring attention to things like men being laughed at or ignored when facing sexual abuse or just simply disagreeing with the whole man hating thing and wanting actual equality, again you're an evil internalized misogynist and a handmaiden to the patriarchy!! If you're a woman with short hair, a woman with a bigger nose, a woman with broader shoulders, a woman with bodyhair, or a none white woman, be prepared to be told you're an "evil transgender who use female spaces to prey on women" even if you're not. Despite how so many radfems say that women shouldn't have to live up to beauty standards of the patriarchy and how some of them say we need to empower non white women, they sure do love accusing every slightly non conventionally attractive or non white woman of being one of those "evil transgenders!!" (So scary)

If you're a bisexual woman and you're in a relationship with (or god forbid even married to) a man, get ready to be the butt of many jokes, told you have internalized misogyny, told you should've dated/married a woman because men are evil or even being accused of faking your bisexuality (because I guess the whole point of being bisexual isn't liking both genders)

If you're a man who's into certain kinks (BDSM for example) you're told that your kink is proof that you get off on women being harmed, even though people with kinks like BDSM are against actually harming people or doing non consensual things. If you're a woman who's also into certain kinks (again I'll use BDSM as an example) you're told you've been brainwashed by the patriarchy into thinking abuse is sexy, even though BDSM doesn't equal abuse (there are obviously people who use BDSM as a cover up for actual abuse which is horrible, but BDSM in general isn't abuse). If you're someone who doesn't fit into the box of what a "non misogynistic person" is to these radfems (which if I'm being honest is just most people because most people radfems hate aren't actually misogynistic) you'll be bullied, told to die, told to end yourself and if you're a woman that they see as having "internalized misogyny" they might even say you deserve to be raped and face violence because like I said before, radfems are only feminist if you're the right kind of woman to them, if you're not they don't give a shit about what happens to you

Oh and if you're a woman in a country where violence against women is a big issue and misogyny is normalised, get ready to be ignored because radfems have more important issues to deal with like some bisexual woman marrying a man or a transgender person existing

This is so spot on lol.

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That radfem blocked me so I can't reply to their post, but they seriously tried to invalidate my point (females can have XY chromosomes, as proved by a 46 XY intersex woman giving birth) by saying "well they have to have donated eggs and/or IVF".... So IVF is a less legitimate way to get pregnant??? Like, since she had difficulty conceiving the "normal" way, she's less female?????? And the womb she had was somehow illegitimate because of her being intersex??????????

Fucking radfems man

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Terfs be like: if you don't care that YOUR VAGINA is BONE DRY instead of SOPPING WET then you're SICK IN THE FUCKING HEAD!!!!!!

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A couple of days ago I saw a post by a radfem that's stook with me for some reason, and I would like to hear your thoughts as well as express my opinion

So basically the post went something like this:

"I think we should be allowed to make fun of and shit on things men like, they've constantly made fun of our pumpkin spice lattes, Taylor Swift, animal crossing, the sims and other things girls mainly like, I don't see why we cant get pay back"

I found this post really weird because aren't feminists supposed to be against gender stereotypes? I'm sure not ALL girls like pumpkin spice lattes and Taylor Swift (in fact majority of the Taylor Swift haters I know are girls)

What happens if they go to make fun of a mans interests but he has more feminine interests like pumpkin spice lattes, animal crossing and the Sims, do they make fun of him or do they not continue the cycle of making fun of things mainly women like?

(also I didn't even know animal crossing and the sims were mainly popular with women, I thought it was mainly neutral because I saw mostly equally both male and female youtubers play those games)

And what happens if a woman likes stuff mainly men like? Do they make fun of those things or do they not because it would be internalized misogyny to make fun of something a woman likes?

Of course there are some absolute jerks out there who make fun of things just because mainly women like them and I disagree with that, but NO ONE should be making fun of people's interests just because the fanbase is mostly male/female

And again, if you make fun of something just because it's main fans are of a specific gender, what happens to the people of the opposite gender who like those things? Are they excluded from the hate or are they included for "liking a stupid boyish/girly thing"

I think its very stupid and I'd like to hear your thoughts

I agree that it's stupid!

First issue: Radical feminists think that women should be insulting and hurting men as "payback". This is just a waste of effort and time if your ultimate goal is to actually uplift women. But we all know radfems aren't serious about that anyway

Second issue: they're simply enforcing gender stereotypes by continuing to associate certain interests and hobbies with men vs women. Not a great look in the fight for equality, and also discredits lip service to dismantling gender roles. Which, again, is something radfems like to pretend they care about.

Third issue: by insulting hobbies commonly associated with men as petty revenge, they're also insulting any women who enjoy those things, which isn't really a feminist action now is it lmao

Sooooo yeah