#redscharms

[moonprincessdiviniation]

Hey there ♥️ Since you gave us permission to ask you more personal questions :) For which artists do you enjoy doing readings the most? Whose energy you enjoy the most?

Welcome, Red!

Honestly? I'm not sure 🤔 I've done a couple of readings concerning Taehyung before the blog, his energy was really solemn for a while.

Then I did a few sporadic readings on Namjoon, Wonho and JK also before the blog. I think the happiest I was, which could've been my happiness not theirs, was for the Wonho and Namjoon questions.

So there's never been a consistent energy that I've dived into, except for Taehyung. But his energy hasn't been the best because of his previous struggles, so I don't count him.

But I definitely love doing kpop readings! BTS are my boys and introduced me to the world of kpop. So they're my biased favorite 🥰

What about you, Red? Whose energy do you enjoy? @redscharms

[moonprincessdiviniation]

Green; amber; beige ♥️

Hello Red! Glad you could visit, I'm such a fan of your work! 🤗💜💜

Green: Do you have a favorite flower?

I do! I'm very basic and love roses 🌹🥀💞 There's just something so beautiful in watching it take form and decay quickly but gracefully. I've never seen a rose die in a way that isn't beautifully mesmerizing 🥰

Amber: What's saved as your phone's lockscreen?

I found this on Pinterest, but I'm pretty sure the original artist is on Twitter. If someone knows their @ I'd love to be able to include it here 💜

I'm a multi fan, but BTS are special to me because they reintroduced me to my love for kpop. This has been an emotional year for all of them and I'm so happy they're finally able to let go of all of the things they couldn't say before. Fun fact, they're the reason why I always sign off with a purple heart 🤗💜

Beige: Have any pets? What're their names?

I have several! Mostly cats, but there's also a dog (German Shepard) and some parakeets and cockatiels.

My fur baby is named Minnie. She's going to be five this year and it doesn't make a bit of difference because she still acts like a kitten 😂😂 She is a cancer though so she's a big cuddle bug and is constantly craving attention and affection.

Our dog is named Lanie and I have two other cats named Jabber baby Wocky (Alice in wonderland) and Kuzco (llama from emperor's new groove). We have more pets (this is a family of ten) but most are shared or belong to other members of my family.

Edit: Not sure why the picture is staying at the bottom, but I've tried fixing it and it doesn't work 😅 but this is meant to be my lockscreen

[moonprincessdiviniation]

“Friendships and how close you are really makes a difference too! Would the situation be reversed had you and the mutuals have been closer?”

True. In this case I believe it’s important to be honest with your friend and your feelings about the situation. I don’t think it’s appropriate to ask them to stop contacting the other person unless of course the situation is serious but in this case I think the friend wouldn’t want to have anything to do with the other person anyway. But to avoid unwanted tension it’s best to honestly say how you would be grateful if your friend’s friendship stayed within their personal life until you get over the situation and feel like you no longer have a negative emotional response to it. But blocking... it’s a little childish in my opinion.

That's how I see it too, because the mutuals can still be friends with both, it's all about keeping that friendship personal to them and not letting it interfere with your friendship.

Unless of course, it was serious like you said, because then the question would arise whether or not they also agreed with this. Then it's a question of whether you want that friendship in your life.

Blocking without conversation is completely childish, there has to be a really good reason for you to do so, imo.

[moonprincessdiviniation]

And if this is the case then this doesn’t put them in a good light tbh. Before making a decision to take sides especially in a friendship it’s important to hear both sides and their arguments. See how they both feel abou the situation and where their points of view match and where they contradict. As an outsider in the situation it’s much easier to evaluate it without any prejudice and unwanted emotional response. However when one either blindly believes just one person or simply was not interested in hearing out both sides it’s a little concerning and makes me question how much they were invested in the friendship in the beginning. That and their emotional maturity.

I agree with this too! While it's important to respect both parties, there are still questions you can ask that can give you insight on where they stand and why certain choices were made.

Only after discussion should you make decisions for what side you're going to take, if any.

But the emotional maturity really speaks volumes! Especially if your mutuals are older than you, it really opens your eyes that age does not always equal wisdom and maturity.

[moonprincessdiviniation]

It’s not a pleasant situation for sure. Since they went as far as to block person A it looks like they try to avoid any contant because of a certain bias. If they wanted to minimize contact with person A they could’ve simply well minimize any contact. But they went a step further and it might be that person B presented person A in a bad light. I think of it like this: if the mutual friends had more in common with person B they would’ve just prioritize their relationship wirh person B and spend more time with them. At least that how I see this. Blocking nowadays is like making a point. It’s a very passive aggressive attitude.

In my post I meant they stayed friends with person A and blocked you 🤗💜 but your point still stands, Red!

That's something I also think about too! What did person A say about me (you) to register such a strong response?

If you're going to minimize contact, that's cool, we can go back to being strangers. For you to block really makes that point of "I don't even want to see you"

Friendships and how close you are really makes a difference too! Would the situation be reversed had you and the mutuals have been closer?