#moonbeam discussions

[moonprincessdiviniation]

i can understand that it can be scary to just text someone “i’m gonna block you cause you’re like this” but it also shows the person’s character and morals like obviously you don’t respect me enough to tell me beforehand...

That's how I see it too! We were friends, or at least talking before this situation went down. Regardless of your relationship with person A, where's the respect for me to let me know our friendship or discussion is no longer important to you?

[moonprincessdiviniation]

Where are my MOA and ONCE moonbeams? How are we feeling about the comebacks today? 🥰

I'm a fan of both and have been streaming since I finished dinner last night 💜

[moonprincessdiviniation]

Sometime you meet people who were only there in your life to teach u a lesson. It would hurt esp if you were close with that mutual friend, but always remember that there will be better people who will come into ur life!

That's the thing too!!

Sometimes friendships only last as long as they do because they were meant to teach you things. It's all about getting to the root of the situation and understanding what the lesson is and how you can learn or change from it. 🥰

[moonprincessdiviniation]

see it would definitely made me sad. i would feel some kind of resentment towards them. but then i would cry a bit, take a hot bath, have a analyzing session with only myself about what went wrong and try to see all the sides of the situation and then dive straight back into life and move on from them. i wont really give them my attention or allow them to occupy any part of my mind and make me feel guilty about something, Sometimes you have let people go and move on from them. that is what i do

That's amazing that you can move forward so quickly 😪

I've been guilty of overanalyzing things to a fault, spending way too much time and energy on things.

I'm learning to trust the universe more, but I definitely didn't in the beginning. So things would always lay heavy on my mind and heart.

But after listening to my guides advice, it really does put things into perspective. You don't have to sit and linger on the "why's" or the "what ifs" sometimes you can just accept that it happened, it no longer serves you purpose and move on. 🤗💜

[moonprincessdiviniation]

If that happened to me, I would surely be hurt (a lot) but not offended. If we both did wrong and some of our mutual friends blocked me, I would be sad for sure but I would not beg said friends to hear me out anymore nor ask them to stay. It just meant that we no longer serve anything among each other, and maybe that was the way the universe chose to cut people in my life. If one day they decide to explain why they blocked me, I would hear them out but I think we can't be friends anymore.

Being hurt is totally acceptable! Whatever emotions you have throughout the situation are not only normal, they're crucial for your growth 🤗💜

That's a good mentality to have too! Ultimately people come into your life when you need them and leave when you don't.

Closure is amazing to have too, but is not guaranteed. So it's always best to find closure within yourself. If the mutuals return to explain themselves, that's closure for them, not for you 💜

You're entitled to hear them out or walk away accepting that nothing else is needed from the situation 🥰

[moonprincessdiviniation]

personal experience, those people were never your friends. especially when both parties mess up, it’s hard not to feel in the middle. but, no one asked to choose sides. so when they choose sides without asking, you should know your answer. they showed their true character and wouldn’t stick by your side during the ugly.

I speak about this topic from personal experience too 🤗💜 but it's made us so much stronger

You hate having to look at it that way, but if the parties involved don't have the respect, or need to be open with you. It's within your best interest to just let go of the energy and move forward.

Ultimately you're the only one who's going to take care of you (aside from the universe, she loves you 😘💕)

[moonprincessdiviniation]

“Friendships and how close you are really makes a difference too! Would the situation be reversed had you and the mutuals have been closer?”

True. In this case I believe it’s important to be honest with your friend and your feelings about the situation. I don’t think it’s appropriate to ask them to stop contacting the other person unless of course the situation is serious but in this case I think the friend wouldn’t want to have anything to do with the other person anyway. But to avoid unwanted tension it’s best to honestly say how you would be grateful if your friend’s friendship stayed within their personal life until you get over the situation and feel like you no longer have a negative emotional response to it. But blocking... it’s a little childish in my opinion.

That's how I see it too, because the mutuals can still be friends with both, it's all about keeping that friendship personal to them and not letting it interfere with your friendship.

Unless of course, it was serious like you said, because then the question would arise whether or not they also agreed with this. Then it's a question of whether you want that friendship in your life.

Blocking without conversation is completely childish, there has to be a really good reason for you to do so, imo.

[moonprincessdiviniation]

They were probably fake. Especially for them to still be friends. If they were fake, its a good thing that this happened. So this negative energy wouldn't be around you and holding you back in life. Better people will come to you :D

Also agree!

If they left you and chose the other person, then they no longer served you a purpose, or never did initially. You're better off growing without them, learning from the situation and starting fresh 💜