I'm wondering if other Doms get that too
I feel a lot of pressure from my sub's expectations. It's not like he's deliberately trying to pressure me into doing what he wants, but I just really want to be a good Dom and be considerate of his feelings
He's very sensitive and gets subdrop easily so I'm always trying to be careful. He wants to try a lot of new stuff that I don't feel very confident in doing. He likes to brat and I don't mind brat taming, but he doesn't like most of the stuff I can think of when I'm trying to get him to act the way I want him to so I'm kinda in a fix here. And on top of that it's very hard to make him cum
The mixture of all this and also the fact that I'm not a very confident person just makes me feel like I'm walking on thin ice when I'm trying to Dom him. Like he wants me to be confident and do what I want to him, but then also I feel like I have to do everything in a very specific way so that he can enjoy himself and not get subdrop
We're doing much more vanilla than kink because I don't feel like Domming is very relaxing and fun for me lately