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Sometimes things might not be what they seem to be. This person you might be infatuated with is not who they really are. Be careful. I'm not saying they are a raging psychopath but there's some kind of illusion from either your or their part. You might be in love so naturally you don't see some of their flaws so my advice would be- try to turn on your decernment and try to see what is beyond this hormone induced illusion. It's crucial especially if you see yourself being with them for the rest of you life. Be pragmatic.
Alternatively, you need to stop acting like someone you are not. You cant be fake and whine that your relationships/friendships are fake too. Be honest with yourself first then everything else will fall into the right place. Don't put on a mask so this or that person could like you . It's not worth it. Be raw and then the right people will(slowly) come to YOU and will like YOU for who you are.
Spoil your person. It's ok to do that. Giving presents is more than ok. I'm writing this to all kinds of relatonships but specifically to straight once. To both sides really. Men need gifts too, they might not be used to this so they might recect you at first but I promise you it will made their day. And to men, woman in your life should be the star of your existance, then gift-giving would come to you naturally.
In general tho, the exchange of gifts in our relationships(romantic or not) should be two-sided. I'm not talking about anything lavish, afterall it's not about quantity but quality. It's about remebering that the other person exist and that we appreciate them being in our life. I don't want you to feel like all you should do to them is giving presents. Afterall your presence, true presence, should be the best thing in their life( and vice-versa) but a small flower or a box of chocolates from time to time wouldn't hurt.
It's a call for you to be open to the universe giving to you too. Don't forget to be grateful for the gifts it's giving you even if it doesnt look like it's giving you anything good.
It might sould like a cliche but you are ment to find a true soulmate in this lifetime. A little personal note here, I don't believe in soulmates so this is big and most likely true. I'm not saying that the person you are with IS your soulmate, because you might be in a toxic relationship under the disguise of a healthy one or you might be gaslighting yourself but just so you know, this is confirmation that regardless of your status and/or reason you are ment to have a soulmate in this liftime.Idk when it's going to happen but it is ment to happen.
For few lucky people out there, you are in a relationship with your soulmate and I just want to say, Good for You in the most heartwarming way you can imagine. I feel like you are blooming really well with them and that it's not your first time together. That you were partners in previous lives.
I just want to give you the tightest, warmest, longest hugs you can imagine. You are not orphaned, you are not alone and most importantly, Universe didnt abbandoned you even if it feels like it did. I promise you it didn't. You might feel like you are complately alone, that no one loves you and that you are worth nothing but it is not true. You need to belive me. If you need a reminder then you have my permission to copy this tekst, write it on a piece of paper or whatever to have it in front of your eyes to come back to it if you'd need it.
Now, feeling like this is absolutely normal and everyone goes thru it. It's complately fine. It's perfectly fine to feel like this but you need to remember that if there's truly no one around you then that just means that someone new is coming into your life. Remember that life doesn't like emptiness and nothing last forever so someone right will come to your life eventually. Use this time of lonelines to truly know yourself and be comfortable with yourself so the next person that will come to your life, that is right for you, will be greeted with the best version of you that you can give them. Sometimes we are blessed by this sort of loneliness to truly fall in love with ourselves so we can then love someone who is right for us.
