Women Under the Male Gaze
In “The Women Men Don’t See,” James Tiptree Jr. explores in his short story how the main character, who is a man, learn of the oppression women face in the patriarchy and through that experience we have insight into the mind of an exemplary male in our society.
The protagonist learns the inner thoughts of a woman, Ruth, as he is spending copious amounts of time with her as they are stuck together in an unknown area. What I found interesting was all the sexual innuendos he made up in his head at all situations with Ruth. This provided the reader to enter the male mind and as a result the core of the patriarchy. Just like in “The Husband Stitch” that was the first time I really read a female character be open about her sexual desires and feel comfortable in asking what she wanted. In this short story, Ruth is a suspicious and devious character according to the protagonist and I liked this side of her as this is an archetype we don’t see much of. We see the man get nervous under her scrutiny with his mind-whirling narration, “Could she have intended to come here? No way. Where she planned to be was Chetumal, which on the border. Come to think, Chetumal is an odd way round to Tikal” (15). We don’t see this deviousness of women portrayed in literature that much because the expectation for women is for them to be modest and obedient to their male counterpart, plus male authors can’t speak the same volume. So to read the audacious reaction of the man quaking, it shows the abnormality of the idea of a woman having an agenda to achieve something that the man does not know anything about as society functions on “women have no rights. . . except what men allow us” (20).
Because men dominate our society and most are oblivious to their domination, to read this story it was comical to see the tribulations the protagonist goes through to try to understand this woman. He concludes, “Mrs. Ruth Parsons isn’t even living in the same world with me” (21). Women feel alienated in the patriarchy and do not belong in this world as perpetuated by men as they think we don’t belong on the same world either. This quote foreshadows Ruth and Althea’s departure from Earth to live amongst aliens on a whole other planet. Might as well, as the planet you currently live on doesn’t respect you, so this one might have hope? This is all craziness to our male protagonist and he simply accepts the rare events as basically, “women, what can you do?” This narration exposes the oppression women face through a male gaze. At the end, the male doesn’t try to step in, but continues on with his male agenda and the patriarchy lives on—because only “two of our opossums are missing” so what is the big deal?




















