narihira said: virginity *is* a social construct but the act of sex is still very intimate and it’s your body so you have the right to have sex only on your own terms with someone you really care about ;; just that it shouldn’t HAVE to be a big deal? *hugs*
yeah I understand dne;j;dn;ewnsdfweifndkf soRRY FOR BEING A DORK FJWEFNDSF;LAKWE
hanamiyass said: I think the base line should be don’t shame people for their sexual decisions regardless of whether they have lots of sex or choose to abstain. Some people attatch emotional significance to their 1st time and that’s okay.
I definitely agree, judging someone on their sexual lives is a no-no, as long as they are being safe about it! (I'll worry if my friends aren't practicing safe sex fneklwn;dlsfawen)