#reverse queer dictionary

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Hello, is there a term for when you're genderfluid, but you have a "default" gender? I'm a guy most of the time, but sometimes i feel like other genders. I know it still falls under genderfluid, but I'm curious if there's a more specific microlabel I could use.

Hello!

The main term that comes to mind is genderfloy (someone who is genderfluid and mostly male; someone who is typically male but can be other genders). More vaguely, there is also focusgender (a gender where one feels multiple genders either fluidly or statically, but one or two are most common)

Hope this helps!

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is there a word for when youre gnc/genderqueer and you like men/masc and other gnc/non-binary people that isnt "gay man?" pls list as many labels as possible!!

Hello!

Here are some terms I found that could potentially fit:

Toric - A nonbinary individual who is attracted to men, exclusively or not

Enbian - A nonbinary individual who is attracted to other nonbinary individuals, exclusively or not

Carnelian - A nonbinary individual who is attracted to men and other nonbinary individuals, exclusively or not

Diamoric - An umbrella term used to describe non-binary individuals' experience with attraction that does not fit the same-gender/opposite-gender dichotomy

Floric - A non-woman who is attracted to other non-women

Lilacean - Someone who is attracted to men in a queer way

Queer - An umbrella term for anyone who is not straight/cishet

Uranic - Someone who is attracted to men, masculine, and neutral-aligned nonbinary individuals; someone who is attracted to non-feminine-aligned and non-woman-aligned individuals.

Gai - An orientation that is gay in a uniquely non-binary way

Nofemaric - An individual that is not attracted to women

Nofinsexual - Someone who is attracted to all genders except those that are FIN (feminine in nature)

GNCsexual - Someone who is attracted exclusively to GNC individuals

Lavenian - A turian (see below) man or nonbinary person who is GNC

Veldian/Turian - A man or nonbinary person who is attracted to men, typically exclusively; queer attraction to men; a gay man or nonbinary person

Bimnsexual - A bisexual individual who is attracted to men, male-aligned individuals, and nonbinary individuals, exclusively or not

Cinthean - Men, man-aligned, or unaligned nonbinary individuals that are attracted to other men, man-aligned, and/or unaligned nonbinary individuals; non-fem/non-women attracted to other non-fems/non-women, exclusively or not

Queerian - A queer individual who is attracted to other queer individuals

@glitched-out-dusk

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Hello

I found the label Aegogender but I don't know if there's another label that fits me better

I don't feel I have a gender but I also feel there's my agab like it's there but I can see it 'cause I'm disconnected from my gender, but I think I'm not cis by default 'cause if I wake up being a male I would care, I like being female but I think it's 'cause I'm AFAB

Hello!

I found some labels other than aegogender that could potentially fit:

Cisgenderless - Someone who defaults to their AGAB due to a lack of a gendered feeling

Intrafeminine - Someone who is AFAB and is not cis but has a similar experience to that of cis women (specifically the third example: Being AFAB and feeling that their gender identity is heavily influenced by femaleness or femininity) Cassgender - Someome who may or may not experience a gender identity, but feels that it is unimportant

Cassgirl - Someone who identifies as female or female aligned, but considers their gender identity unimportant

Greygender - Someone who is not entirely without a gender, but is it not entirely “with” a gender either; someone who has a strong ambivalence toward their gender identity; someone who has a gender but it is weak, undefinable, not felt most of the time, and/or one isn’t invested in it

Genderfaint - Someone who has a gender but it’s very hard to feel; numb and almost like an empty space but it is there, either undefined and confusing or just too dull to feel it properly, it could feel completely blank, or genderless but you know you have a gender but can't feel it

Demigirl - Someone who identifies partially, but not wholly as a girl/woman

Distaregender - Someone who feels like their gender is distant, far away, hidden, buried, or generally disconnected from oneself in a way that one can't properly feel or appreciate it

Emicis - Someone who feels heavily related to their AGAB, which makes them comfortable with going by cisgender even though they're not cisgender

Cisvenient - Someone who is only cis because it’s convenient

Demicisgender - Someone who identifies partially as their AGAB

@bloom-s-cipher-goldenrod

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hey sorry if this is the wrong kind of question? But I don’t think it is?

anyways, are there any blogs you recommend following if you’re questioning your sexuality (specifically if think you might be into girls as a girl/girl-adjacent)?

thank you!!! 🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜🖤🩶🤍🤎

Hello!

This isn’t the type of thing that I typically help out with (mostly because I don’t really know about/follow many queer-related blogs), sorry!

From a quick search, the main two blogs I found were @questioning-culture-is and @our-queer-experience. (let me know if you want to be untagged!)

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Is there a label for somebody who is polyamorous and monogamous at the same time? Like, I wouldn't prefer being in a relationship with one person over being in a polycule.

Hello!

There are a few terms that could potentially fit:

Ambiamorous - Someone who can enjoy both monogamy and polyamory and has little to no preference between the two

Monpoly/polymono - Someone who can enjoy both monogamy and polyamory and may have a preference for one over the other

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Sorry if this is kinda messy,,,im just having a bit of trouble with my identiry

It's like being gay in the way a man/nb likes a man/nb and having a male preference but also not minding liking girls, like, i dont mind liking girls in b oy way but its much more comfy in the genderless way,,,

Sorry if this doesn't make sense,,,thank you in advance!

Hello!

The most similar term I found was courpalian (someone who is nblnb, nblw, nblm, mlm, and mlnb but not mlw)

Other terms that could potentially fit are

Azalian - An agender/genderless individual that is attracted to women and/or women-aligned individuals, exclusively or not

Agenirian - Someone who is aglw; an agender individual that is attracted to women, exclusively or not

Azurian - Someone who is mlm and nblm and prioritizes their attraction to men over other attractions they may have

Opalian - Someone who is mlm, mlnb, nblm, and nblnb and prioritizes their attraction to nonbinary individuals and men over other attractions they may have

Torico - Someone who is most commonly attracted to men, frequently attracted to nonbinary people, and rarely attracted to women

Toro - Someone who is primarily attracted to men and nonbinary people and can sometimes attracted to women, although it is unlikely

Lilacean - QLM; queer attraction to men

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ohh great!! tytytyy for turning media on, i really needed help-

im prettyy sure i saved it from pinterest but i have no idea and reverse image searching has resulted in zero help 💔

thank you sm for the help!!

Hello!

I was able to find it: ambonecflux (A gender identity where one identifies as male, female, both, neither and fluctuates between them)

@tommy-x3

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Hi! I've been questioning my romantic/sexual orientation for a while because I'm likely demisexual and don't have a huge frame of reference, and I struggle with distinguishing between platonic and romantic/sexual attraction fsr.

I am definitely mspec and am attracted to men, women and nonbinary people (hypothetically) in different ways. I prefer androgynous and feminine presenting people over masculine, but I don't know whether I would like all genders, nor do I know if there are any genders that I am not attracted to. It feels like a stretch to say I am attracted to all genders because I haven't met them, but it could very well be true. I have no idea lol

If it helps, I'm genderfluid! Tysm <3

Hello!

Here are some m-spec labels that could potentially fit:

Triniyflexible - Primarily attracted to women and non-binary folk but can sometimes be attracted to men, although it is unlikely. One could occasionally feel attraction towards any other gender due to its flexibility

Triniy - Someone who is primarily attracted to women and nonbinary individuals, and rarely attracted to men

Neptunic - Someone who is attracted to feminine and neutral/non- masculine genders/individuals

Neptunicflexible - Someone who is primarily attracted to feminine and neutral/non-masculine genders/individuals, but rarely experiences attraction to masculine genders (couldn’t find a link)

Nominflexible - Someone who is mostly attracted to non-min (masculine in nature) genders, but is occasionally attracted to min genders

Polysexual - Someone who is attracted to multiple/many, but not all genders

Tulimsexual - Someone who is attracted to multiple/many, but not all genders and has a preference

Multisexual/Pluralian - Someone who is attracted to multiple genders

Omnicurious - Someone who is questioning whether they are omnisexual or not

And here are some a-spec labels in case you were interested:

Platonisexual - Someone who cannot distinguish between platonic and sexual attraction

Platoniromantic - Someone who cannot distinguish between platonic and romantic attraction

Idemromantic - Someone who experiences no internal differences between romantic and platonic attraction, and differentiates them based on external factors

Idemsexual - Someone who experiences no internal differences between sexual and platonic, attraction, and differentiates them based on external factors

Nebularomantic - Someone who cannot differentiate between platonic and romantic attraction due to neurodivergence

Parosexual - Someone who is allosexual towards certain genders and ace-spec (demisexual, greysexual, etc.) towards other genders (for example, you could be futuraesexual/romantic towards certain genders and allosexual/romantic towards men/woman/nonbinary people)

Futuraesexual/romantic - Someone who is interested in feeling sexual/romantic attraction or being in a sexual/romantic relationship, but has never experienced attraction before and therefore does not know how they feel towards sex/romance

Paroromantic - Someone who is alloromantic towards certain genders and aro-spec (demiromantic, greyromantic, etc.) towards other genders

Dellosexual - Someone who is demisexual towards certain genders and allosexual towards other genders

Delloromantic - Someone who is demiromantic towards certain genders and alloromantic towards other genders

Greysexual - Someone who relates to asexuality, but doesn’t feel like “asexual” fully describes them (e.g. experiences attraction very weakly, rarely, ambiguously, and/or only in specific circumstances)

Greyromantic - Someone who relates to aromanticism, but doesn’t feel like “aromantic” fully describes them (e.g. experiences attraction, very weakly, rarely, ambiguously, and/or only in specific circumstances)