Btw: I think Richie knocked Jess up.
um... Melissa? What's going on? @only-one-brain-cell
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Btw: I think Richie knocked Jess up.
um... Melissa? What's going on? @only-one-brain-cell
right I can’t cope with Jess & Richie not having a ship-name in big 2025 so here’s some options
jessimovich
jessicousin
richjess
honestly slapped these out in 3 minutes but I refuse to let them fall victim to the recent trend of bland ass ‘NameName’ ship-names👎👎 im feeling quite partial to ‘jessimovich’ atm but I’ll see what the crowd says :)
if anyone’s got any ideas drop them in the replies and I’ll see if I can add them to the poll (never used the poll option before LMAO)
Syd is the pattern breaker
Which is great news in terms of Sydcarmy ENDGAME.
It's not like we all, Sydcarmy truthers, haven't seen that one coming. Of course, we have always known this lady came to turn it all around in Carmy's world from the very get-go, it was always painfully obvious.
BUT
Here is another pattern that she has come to erase from the life of Carmy (and the show)
(He's fighting it like a champ, I must say)
Storer likes strong women who take charge and take the initiative to go after the men they love so the man doesn’t have to (in fiction, IDK about his real life). The guy is the one who gets to decide whether he accepts her advances or innuendos and responds to them, but he doesn’t really take the first step; she does.
Refer to my napkins theory (handkerchief section) please.
<WIP> Could be code for handkerchiefs or white flags or just courtesy. Pop | 02 x05 BECAUSE Michael couldn't afford the napkins, as he
Exhibit A: Jess
Jess made it clear she was into Richie in 2x7. Also, at Syd's party. She is up for it and made it clear, even when Richie has not picked up her handkerchief yet.
I don't know about Tiff, nor do I care
Exhibit B: The C person
He created the C person and I will not elaborate on that one. Fuck her!
Exhibit C: Sugar
He created Sugar who is clearly the one who wears the pants in the relationship, and taking into account Pete’s personality, was probably the one who was all over him from day 1, and he was just like: “Yeah Nat, whatever you say, you’re so great, ILY.”
Exhibit D: Tina
He created Tina, same energy as Nat but her husband is no Pete, so I’m not sure about how her relationship with her husband began, I can only safely assume she always speaks her mind. So I’m sure she was open about her feelings when she met her husband, no riddles.
Exhibit E: Donna
He created Donna and same, there’s no version of the story where Donna was ever shy or quiet and not open, if not too open, about her feelings when she met Carmy’s dad (like you know who: the C person) and that’s probably why they got together to begin with and also one of the reasons why he left her eventually. She’s overwhelmingly vocal about how she feels for ppl because the excessive booze removes any social boundaries and barriers and she’s always ready to shout it in everyone’s face. That’s changing though. But that's how she was written into existence by Storer, to begin with.
The game changer → Sydney Adamu
So, that takes us to Syd who never openly flirted with Carmy, unless we count Pasta 2x2 (which I don’t).
And never really read the awkward signs he was trying to give her (which I hate but totally understand because they are business partners and she's a professional).
And so… we have a pattern breaker here. That in Storer’s book means MEAT.
What if seeing as Storer is keen on planting breadcrumbs in plain sight, instead of pasta being code for sex on the show, the meat is actual
We've reached the meat of the matter, chefs! YAY!
So, there are about a zillion foreshadowing leads we could analyze of how that game change in terms of the female role in the courtship dynamic will play out SOON, Storer wasn't precisely slick throughout the series, but the most obvious and recent one was brought to us hidden in plain sight, in S3 -3x5- and I already went over it here (my own RB notes from 7/27):
The one above was not the whole picture, this is the part that was missing: This means she's the one who has the final say, as I have been
The point is that as the post it says: "ALL QUESTIONS ASK SYDNEY!"
That means that dynamic will have to be reversed for Sydcarmy to happen, CARMY WILL HAVE TO POP THE QUESTION. LOL!
No, not that question. Well... maybe eventually, but I'm actually talking about the CONFESSION and asking her out, asking her out on a date or something and I don't mean a symbolic date like the fucking funeral he completely ignored her at and where he then ditched her too. I'm talking about really and openly telling her how he feels for her, and exposing himself to her rejection. Not the other way around.
She has to enable this, of course, so in a sense, she will have to break her patterns for Carmy too, because love is an act of mirroring, as we all know by now.
Sad but true The awful truth is: Sydcarmy is not ready to happen yet because Syd hasn’t made HER move yet. Carmy can have all the panic a
Gonna forget about spoons for a moment and will be focusing on "walls" for a while. @mod-doodles pointed out something that got me thinking
Season 1 Richie got the wrong caulk, but she didn't: Season 2 The Bear | 02X01 | Beef Sundae 02x03: Sydney Call m
She can talk. She can fight. She can quit. But can she really open up? Can she open up about her feelings? About her vulnerabilities? About
But it´s Carmy who will have to grow a pair and put into words what has remained unspoken between them and is starting to decay inside -and it's ruining their whole relationship-. He will have to turn the dynamic around and take the role that Storer usually puts "strong women" in, and open up and go after who he wants. He will have to be the strong one and say it out loud. ASK ALL THE QUESTIONS because Syd has all the answers and her answers are the game changers of the show.
I wish it went like this (let's imagine Tanner is either Shapiro or Luca):
Fun fact: Demian Lewis said that he characterized Bobby Axelrod by playing him like a wild animal, tapping into that energy and bringing in it on set every day to play his scenes. He didn't say the beast was a bear though.
Bonus track: Ayo Edebiri. Ayo´s pattern is to be the pattern breaker of the plot. The → plot twist.
Ayo always plays the game-changer character. In Omni Loop, she did too, I'm sure her next movie with Luca Guadagnino will be the same thing. She is drawn to that type of characters and plays them beautifully.
Remember to follow my tag #Gingerpovs💋
RichJess
I ship these 2 sooo hard!
Could they happen on S3, please?