Lessons and Healing
My friend called me last week and after a couple minutes, I knew something was bothering him. He told me he was returning flowers after being stood up by a girl he previously ended things with. She wasn't very nice to him during the time they were together and she did not add any positive aspect to his life. In fact, she made him miserable and did not appreciate him. I asked him what did he intend to happen with flowers anyway. She didn't deserve them. He stopped for a second and said "I was being nice." Although I said I'm sorry, I also had to be honest. I said, the flowers weren't for her, they were for him. When he responded, confused, I clarified that the reaction he expected was to help provide healing of his ego. He wanted her to validate a part of himself, he felt she took away. He wanted to convince her that she lost a great guy. I said, 'fuck her' and that in order for him to move forward he needed to dig deep and find his self worth. He knew who he was. He knows what he has to offer. More importantly, he knows that the only one in this situation that he needs love from... Is himself. My best friend called me the day after. She was catching me up and was explaining how she felt. She also shared something with me that she hesitated to say at first because it's not a-typical of her. She was slightly unsure and when she finished saying what she had to say. She asked what I thought. She was scared of what I might say or think. I waited a few long seconds and felt convicted to tell her that she did not need my approval. In spite of whether I agreed with her thoughts or not, I feel that my love for her surpasses my own opinion and that my support would always be there. What I'm making out to say is; I believe the success in growth for any soul is to heal any wounds we have. In love or life, work through pain or resentment in order to reach a higher level of vibration. More importantly, as you secure yourself, you also honor your intuition. We know when our heart is right. I take these lessons for myself as well. And I have no desire to settle for my own interpretation of mediocracy. Essentially, my wish for all, is happiness by personal definition.













