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afterwards — what kind(s) of aftercare do they like being given? do they like giving their partner aftercare? do they fall asleep quickly after sex?
It doesn't take much for her: laying next to each other, a conversation, water brought, reaching out for a light touch or leaning towards one another is aftercare to her. She doesn't need a lot. She will give aftercare too —— but only after she's told to and what you need, otherwise she will go off of herself and think not getting up and leaving, staying to spend time qualifies. If told that her partner needs comfort, she will stroke her back, make sure she's warm and comfortable, give her water or food, but she won't cuddle —— not her thing. Light touches, mostly. As for falling asleep —— yes. Right away if there's nothing for her to do from more than 7 minutes.
body — what is their favorite body part of theirs? of their partner(s)'? are there any specific body parts they like to pay special attention to (ex. feet, hands, ass, etc)? where are their erogenous zones? where are they most sensitive?
Favorite body part of her own: her hands and shoulders/back. Her hands are as elegant and precise as they are strong, and tgey get the job done no matter what the job is. She also takes quiet pride in her back muscles and wide frame —— she worked hard for that.
Favorite on partner: Neck, hips and and thighs. She loves the vulnerability and softness there —— kissing, nuzzling, gripping, biting. Special attention goes to facial features and expressions; she's weak for a pretty face and likes to focus on eyes and micro expressions to read people. She also has a thing for long hair ( grabbing, pulling, combing through, etc ) and ass gets attention during more heated moments; she likes bending people over.
Erogenous zones: ears (light kisses or breath make her shiver), inner thighs, lower back (rake your nails from under her shoulder blades to the lower back and she will arch), lower stomach, backs of her knees. She also likes it when women place their hands on her chest when she has it bound/flattened; it makes her feel warm —— but otherwise her chest is not any more sensitive than average.
clothing — do they like to have sex fully or partially clothed, or do they prefer having sex naked? would they ever move an article of clothing aside for stimulation/penetration (ex. pulling their panties to the side for penetrative sex)?
Partial clothing (shirt unbuttoned, skirt hiked up, stockings still on) can feel elegantly erotic to her, and in a more urgent or "stolen moment" scenario, she'd absolutely move clothing aside or create minimal opening to reach the goods. But she won't let you do that to her. Here's the thing: she doesn't have to be naked. Her partner will have not a single bit of fabric on —— and unable to touch her skin. Her nudity is nietger your problem nor your prerogative. She'll undress if she feels like it, but if Ossia wants to keep a certain article of clothing or all of it on, there's nothing you can do to change her mind.
She also isn't a fan of penetrative sex on herself. She will give her partner whatever is asked, but most that is going inside her are two fingers: penetration is uncomfortable for her and g-spot doesn't do much for her.
dynamic — are they dominant? do they like to be dominated? how do they show their dominance? how do they show their partner(s) they want to be dominated? are they more versatile or does it depend on the context/their partner(s)?
Dominant...ish. Could bottom for the right partner, but even then may accidentally top from the bottom. She likes being powerful, she likes taking control, and it shows in setting the pace, holding her partner down, pinning wrists, moving her partner's body around/into positions or doing something and expecting them to get the memo. She is strong and you will feel it. It's not always intentional, nor is it something she consciously identifies with, it just comes naturally to her.
However, you are out of your mind if you think you can dom Ossia —— try to and you will end up bruised and having pissed her off. She won't be controlled or ordered around. She will relax and let the right partner lead her, but domination is out of question.
style — do they like it rough? do they like it soft? do they prefer fucking or making love? do they like a hard and fast pace, a slow and gentle pace, or does it vary/depend on the situation?
Everything varies by mood and situation, either way 8/10 it's intense. She can treat you like a romance genre hero or make you scream and cry, the choice is up to what her partner likes and can take. Pace often starts slow, light, then quickly escalates to hard and fast —— or stays that way. She also thinks along the lines of "having sex" or "fucking" than "making love" because "making love" doesn't need sex in her mind. She also has a slight sadistic streak.
turn on — what turns them on?
Intensity, emotional and physical vulnerability or pretend helplessness, contrast —— someone bright, teasing, or chaotic who draws her in, teasing in general, power play with trust (bondage or restricted movement). But most importantly —— auditory cues. Not even talking: moans, cries, groans, any vocalization that exposes how her partner feels drives her wild. She doesn't like it too loud though, noise makes her head hurt, so she may either cover your mouth or gag you.
