inipit - what qualities do they seek in a partner? describe physical qualities and personality traits?
𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐍𝐒 ( also asked by @rozyrne & @unsungblade )
Rafal wouldn't be able to pinpoint his own romantic preferences due to general inexperience and doesn't seek after specific qualities. With the low life expectancy of Sombron's children, having a partner also isn't a possibility or forecast that he ever anticipated for himself.
The harsh reality is that Fell Dragons of alternate Gradlon are thinned out on multiple fronts by fighting their father's wars or sibling infighting. Rafal didn't expect to survive to adulthood and the normative luxuries of life like partners and mates felt far out of reach. When the true Nil in the DLC remarks that siblings stronger than himself have died, the sense of anxiety and danger is then doubled down for the weakest children who had no remarkable abilities to speak of.
In totality, it means he has few standards when it comes to appearance or personality. It ultimately doesn't matter to him whether someone is ugly or attractive, has positive or negative personality traits, is a man or a woman, so on and so forth; however, due to his childhood loneliness there are things that he absolutely wants out of people.
That checklist is both very short and very demanding:
A heart that has room for only him
Eyes that will look at only him
Someone who will love only Rafal
This sounds easy on paper, but Rafal is a character of extremes who loves very intensely. He's made jealous in a romantic context by seemingly inconsequential details. If you so much as speak alone with someone he perceives as a rival, young or good-looking or even neither of those things - an individual just capable of drawing out your laughter or your smile - he sees a problem.
There's a deeply ingrained and unconscious desire for him to feel and receive love. To heal his formative deficit of it as a twinless Fell Child, to satisfy his natural intensity of being, his ideal life partner would be someone who adores him wholeheartedly, even single-mindedly. That is most attractive to him and that is most desired.











