i have no idea wtf that anon was on about but I guess I can kind of see where you have to be careful with it??? like some people would take the opportunity to be like "I'm not a boy I'm a soft boy/molliboy" in a kind of 'not all men' way, and see it as like... being male but not as extremely or something? gomen I'm very bad at wording things but like as long as you still know you're a guy and a part of the Male Population and being a molliboy doesn't excuse that you should be fine I think???
Nah, yeah, I know! I'm a man and I will own up to anything that's fucked up that I do as a result of Gross Internalized Privilege. Saying I'm a soft boy is just for my own benefit. It makes me smile :)












