Since we've established that Ethari is a sucker for big pretty sincere eyes
Now imagine Runaan learning over time and experience that if he turns up the charm just enough to hold Ethari's attention when they're at a gathering he doesn't want to be at, but also acts genuinely uncomfortable enough to not arouse suspicion and at the right time with the right words makes said large, sincere eyes at him,Ethari will do anything he wants. Including offering to leave early,after bidding their host goodbye and thanking them for the invitation of course,because Ethari is nothing if not a good guest.
But if he's lucky enough to have been wearing something flattering at the time he does it,uses that smooth soft voice he reserves for his loved ones Ethari will go up there and make some excuse to get them out immediately. Because while good manners matter to him, Runaan matters more. (The fact that he's so hot Ethari wants to practically devour him right there has nothing to do with it. Nothing at all.)
Runaan knows his husband loves him too much to refuse when he's showing that rare vulnerability he loves and you can't tell me he doesn't use it to his advantage every now and then—







