I go to BBQ's to enjoy myself and maybe enjoy the company of others, if said company includes: friends or friends of friends. NOT some random drunken WHORE spewing those tired ass "your stuck up" lines towards me without knowing me from a hole in the wall.  No wonder my friendship with women has been narrowed down to ONE person.  Women can be so catty towards each other, especially when they don't personally know another woman.  What is the purpose of this? I'd really like to know.  Do you feel better about yourself when you attempt to publicly humiliate someone and end up looking like a fool in the process?  I would love to shrug it off and blame it on the goose for the sake of this random woman's reputation but I cannot simply overlook this.  If I ever come into contact with this person again I would seriously love to sit down and have an in-depth conversation with her as to why those actions were necessary.