mingyu surprising you with a wholesome meal after a long day. he took note of how you sounded on the phone and also had not been feeling all the good the last few days and wanted to do something to make you feel better. so what better than cooking some of your favorite dishes? and that's what he did. he'd prepare everything with so much care and love you'd feel so overwhelmed with his love.
mingyu taking you shopping and wanting to see you in all the dresses and cute outfits because he's whipped for you like that. he'll just wait outside the trial room as you try on the gazillion outfits picked out and his reactions would be the best honestly. from nah, to ooh to woah babe we're getting this. he'd just he full heart eyes for you.
mingyu was a flirt when you both first started dating. he'd just tell you pickup lines out of nowhere, making you get all shy. you'd get so nervous around him and he'd find that so endearing honestly. and when he just confidently held your hand for the first time when you guys were walking you were just :0 trying not to freak out. mingyu wouldn't shy away from skinship, he loves it and he'd love to hold your hand.
mingyu would always shower you with compliments and tell you how pretty you looked. it would make you shy but he loved seeing the smile on your face.
mingyu would stay by your side if you were feeling down. he won't pressure you to say anything but his presence was just as comforting even if words weren't spoken between you both. he'd draw gentle circles on your back as you lay in his arms, trying to relax and just feel better. he'd be so intentive to you and he'd even go the extra mile to make you something to eat even if you told him you weren't hungry. but he wouldn't have it, telling you to eat something, even if it was just a few spoonfuls of porridge.
mingyu loved going to photobooths with you and if you saw one, you both always ended up taking pictures there. you'd have a precious collection of all the photos you've taken together, cherishing it with all your heart.
hi @sadkidwarexpert wrote these for you to help you feel a bit better, ily <3
if i may, i would like to request some soft mingyu thoughts (as many as you can 😂), and if it's possible to make them kind of specific to me? if not it's fine totally, any would do.
-love, eboni 🖤
hello eboni love! here you go, i hope these are okay and you enjoy them. you take care and sending you the biggest hug <3 ily
mingyu preparing and packing wholesome meals for you because he knows your studies and work is hectic and that you don’t always have the time to eat a good proper meal at times. so, he takes it upon himself to prepare wholesome meals for you and also so that you’d eat well too. he’d always get so worried when you say you didn’t eat much or just survived on energy bars for the day, telling you to eat well for your well-being. he’d pack you the yummiest meals and always write a sweet note for you. and even if there were days that you didn’t get the time to eat the meal he made, he’ll be a bit worried and pouty and ask you or rather sweetly and gently coax you into eating something and he’d be ready to make you anything you ask. but you'd just reheat the meal he had packed you and he sat with you as you ate, asking you about you day.
miingyu who would wait up for you if you got home late from work and he’d see the exhaustion on your face. he’d get you some pyjamas ready as you had a quick shower and you’d be grateful to see the clothes he prepared on the bed. you’d lay in bed immediately and close your eyes, too drained and tired. he’d gently wrap his arms around you as he settled in bed next to you softly asking if you wanted to tell him about your day or if you wanted to sleep if you were too tired. you softly tell him about your day, but the way he was caressing your hair was lulling you to sleep and you don’t even know when you fell asleep while talking. he’d hold you closer, leaving a soft kiss on your temple as he whispered about how proud he is of you and how he’ll be here for you no matter what.
mingyu who would be your study buddy and hype boy, hyping you up for the small achievements you had during school. if you learned new things, he’d listen to you explain about it excitedly with a smile on his face because he loves seeing you like that. he’d help you take down notes and study for your midterms. and if he found you overworking yourself and pushing yourself too hard, he’d be upset, only because he hates seeing you so stressed and overworked, when you both know it won’t get you anywhere. he’d immediately pull you away from your books telling you to relax and take a break. sometimes he’d take you on late-night walks, just to get some fresh air and you’d love that actually. you guys would walk hand in hand and he’d tell you about something interesting that happened at the studio or with the other members to help you get your mind off things for a bit.
mingyu who would be there for you no matter what, during your highs and lows. you’d hate crying and being vulnerable in front of mingyu because you didn’t want him to see you like that. but somehow he was always there for those episodes in your life and he was the one who would give you his shoulder to cry on as sobs left you. he’d hold you in his arms as you cried and let all the emotions you were bottling up and holding out, finally burst, and he’d gently rub your back to try and comfort you, telling you to cry it all out. if you apologized for crying and making a mess of his shirt, he’d shrug it off, telling you that you had nothing to be sorry for and that he was glad he was able to comfort you. he was grateful in fact that you trusted him enough to let him see you in a more vulnerable state.
sometimes if things got a bit too much for you and you started spiraling down, he’d be there for you like a pillar in your life. he’d text you constantly, asking about your day, if you ate, or drank water. he’d check up on you often that you’d tear up, being so grateful you had someone like that in your life, somehow who cared and loved you so much. if perhaps you just didn’t have the energy to text him back and were quiet for a few days, he’d get worried because he knew you really wouldn't be fully okay. he’d come searching for you at your apartment and see you curled up in bed, hiding under the covers. he’d gently call out your name as you stirred under the covers and peeked out to see him, your tired eyes staring back at him. he’d sit on the side of the bed, asking you if you were okay and if there was anything you wanted to talk about or anything he could do to make you feel better. he’d not cuddle you at that moment because he didn’t want to intrude and he wanted to respect and give you that space. "do you want a hug?", he'd ask even though he wanted to give you one so badly, he'd still wait for your permission before engulfing you in one.
mingyu who would indulge and try to write poems because of you. in your free time you often wrote poems, and today mingyu found you on the couch as you intently wrote something in your journal. he plopped down next to you, asking what you were doing. when you told him you were writing poems, his face lit up. he’s read some of your poems before and admires how well you write them. so this time he’s up for a challenge and asks if he can write a poem for you. he’ll take his time though because he wants it to be nice and something special for you too. he’ll thoroughly search through google for words and how to write poems and after about four drafts, he thinks he’s written the best poem he could come up with. he’ll be so happy and proud to show it to you the next day, making you sit on the couch as he reads it to you, only to get shy on the spot as he smiles throughout the entire time he reads, but he’s also observing you face carefully to see your reactions. and once he’d read the full thing, you’d grin and clap, telling him how good it was for the first time as you hugged him. he’ll ask for kisses as a reward and how can you say no.
mingyu who would love to take you out on dates and spoil you because he just loves you so much and you deserve some good love and spoiling after a long week. he’d take you to your favorite places or find new restaurants or cafes to try out with you. he’d love seeing the smile of contentment on your face when you take a bite of the food and it’s so good. and expect him to hold your hand the entire car ride back home.
mingyu who would be clingy at times because if he didn’t get to see you all week, you better be prepared to have him stick to you like glue. it off starts in the morning when he won’t let you go. he has you wrapped around his arms tightly as he snuggles into you even more, mumbling about how he’s missed you too much to let you go. even if you tell him you need to use the bathroom and that you’ll be back, he’ll huff softly but let you go. and once you’re back in bed again, his arms are immediately all over you, pulling you into his body so that he can cuddle and hold you again because he's missed this and you. you just know he’s going to be like that the entire day, but who were you to complain because you loved it and missed him too.
So as every month comes I change my desktop wallpaper, sometimes i pick a ready made one and if I don't find anything to fit my vibe, i make one myself....
I made the second one first, but then decided to change stuff up and made the second one (which i now have as my wallpaper). The mingyu brain rot is eternal and so is my adoration for him. his and Wonwoo's lyrics from fallin' flower did not disappoint.
hi my love! omg these are so pretty!! thank you for sharing this with me! and the gyu brainrot, i know how you feel like he isn't even my bias and im going insane like you're so strong for biasing gyu.
✧ tell me what idol(s) it seems like i’m obsessed with / definitely not normal about » I'd give a wild guess and say youngk and hoshi
✧ tell me what idol(s) you associate with me » svt and day6!
✧ tell me what idol(s) you would not expect me to bias that i do » hoshi was surprising you're too calm for his energy sksksk
✧ tell me what you think my bias “type” is and / or what does it say about me » imma need more info on your general biases but I'd say you love the types that give you positive energy, whose presence brings comfort and a smile to your face
(do me plz! I wanna know what you think)
- with hugs, eboni 🖤
hello im doing okay!!
haha this is way to accurate eboni you're a genius. honestly sometimes even im surprised i bias hoshi sometimes because he's so chaotic sometimes but idk i just clicked with him and he just stole my heart. maybe i think because im more of a introvert and quiet person, i like someone who can bring out the fun side out of me?? if that makes any sense.
of the loveliest internet friends I've had the pleasure to meet, happiest birthday to you, I wish you the warmest hugs and the brightest smiles. I hope you're doing okay, that things aren't as heavy on your mind and sweet soul, and if they are, I hope you're able to manage and get by, I hope your days pass with ease and peace, that you find it in you to love yourself while also loving others. I hope your passions always burn and remain aflame, that your pen never ceases to flow, that your works always bring you joy and wipe away all the grease that life tends to smear our faces with. Trust that I love how you write, even if the content material is not my thing anymore, and that many love it as well. You're one of the people that made me want to create and I appreciate that.
I'm also sorry that life carried me away, I wish I had more to say, but seriously it's been weird really.
I love you, and I wish you the best of the best, darling. 🖤
hugs xx, dahlia (prev. eboni)
eboni! (i hope you're okay with me calling you that?)
thank you so so much for the lovely wishes. i appreciate you so much and im so touched with what you wrote :(
you're such a lovely person too and im grateful that we got to become friends and just know that im always thinking about you so so fondly, hoping you're doing okay and that life isn't too hard on you.
oh, and my exams ha that feels like eons ago, but they went by fine thank God, i mean i passed so that counts, and my average for year 4 (excluding summer semester) is a bit higher than year 3 SO PROGRESS. I felt like I really gave my all, like to the point of complete emptiness, so I'm content with the result. I start year 5 in october by the way, and it's got the most interesting subjects to me. So yay !!
yayy im so happy you passed, cheering for you and sending you a congratulatory hug! i hope year 5 goes well for you, wishing you all the best love <3 much hugs and love and take care ^^
