#sagicomp

[astrobility]

i'm a female sag and i recently met this cancer boy. He asked me out on a date in our first convo on fb (obv i agreed he's really cute) and i started another convo few days later. Our date can only happen in 2 weeks cuz travelling etc. The thing is, i'm really spontaneous and want to send like funny pics and all and get to know him better via fb until the date but i feel like he isn't the type to be spontaneous and do the same too? i dunno how to handle this being a typical sag haha

well send him a funny pic and see how he responds! don’t hold back :) im actually in a similar situation, i have been talking to a sag guy for about a month and we cant meet because im in freaking england atm visiting family but we are going out once i come back! and we send each other funny pics all the time etc. i just do whatever i want and dont think twice because you gotta be yourself gurl dont hold back

-Nina

[astrobility]

my sag boyfriend acts like he loves me he says things about the future and he really isnt the type to do that usually but he does mention marriage and kids and stuff but then he just doesnt reply and acts disinterested and like he took 6 hours to reply so i just sent 'babe?' and its been 3 hours and nothing like... idk this sucks haha idk and its often and ive tried to talk about it but im tired of nagging. it'd just be nice to know my bf wants to have a conversation and talk to me :/

omg that is so annoying tho. Sags always take their time lol. They are so careless sometimes. You should tell him one more time in real life and you have to hope it will change, if not you have to tell him that your relationship isn’t working out like you’d hope it. I mean communication is very important in a relationship. 1 message can do wonders. idk tbh like HOW can you not send a message? If you really like someone, it’s like so normal to text them or talk to them once a day (except if they have a really important meeting or place to be) but still tho. If you both like each other it’s normal to talk. Idk if my partner doesn’t text me at least once I know something is up tho. 

- Zack

[astrobility]

I'm a sag and I have honestly become the most desperate person and I'm not used to it. I'm so independent and my loneliness is like consuming me so like every guy I like I throw it in their face that I like them and get so obnoxious I annoy the shit out of them.

CHEERS, I am literally the same. I guess it’s our loneliness and independence. It fucks you up so much because you just want someone and if someone is nice to you, you feel like they like you so much but it really means nothing but you can’t see it because you’ve been so lonely and it’s the only thing you hear in ages. I’m still dealing with those issues but you just have to remind yourself that it’s different and that it means nothing yet. I’ve come to that stage that it’s the first thing i think whenever I talk to someone. 

Don’t let it get to you, if they want to stay around, they will. 

- Zack

[astrobility]

You recently response need to an ask about a Leo and a sag and I just wanted to say I thought it was really funny because in my experience Leo's bottle things up and refuse to talk about problems in a relationship while sags normally talk things out.. That's just my experiences though

I don’t know if I replied to that message or Nina but yeah that’s normal. Everyone is different but I know what you mean. My dad is a Sag and sometimes he doesn’t talk things out but there are days where he can’t shut up and has to talk about it until everything is fixed. 

- Zack

[astrobility]

I'm a Leo f and I'm dating a sag m and we have major drama constant fights it's just so ugh but we do love one another and are trying to work through it all I know sags don't like drama and pretty much run when things get like that in relationships but the fact that he's sticking around is that a good sign for a sag? He wants to make it work but doesn't really put in huge amounts of effort like I do tbh idk I just want this to work any ideas? We're LD and he was here recently and will be soon

I think it is a good sign tho!!! But yeah sags are known to not care that much and they try to stay away from drama amap. I think you both have to find the source and like accept it somehow. But it depends on the situation. If it’s jealousy you’ll have to find a way to trust each other. If it’s family you’ll have to talk to those members and not fight between you two. I can’t imagine your situation tbh. 

The only advice I can give you is to stay calm. Even though you both tend to scream or yell. Fights usually get worse if you keep talking about it. If you’re in another fight just look into your partner’s eyes. Like just both shut up and then you realise in those 2 seconds that it’s not worth it. Idk whenever I fight or smth I just shut up and I listen and then I actually kinda forget what the fight was about, which means it was silly. But yeah if you see this message, give me a specific situation or smth. to give you a bit more information

- Zack

[astrobility]

im sag and i know sags are meant to be uber confident and all, and i am, but only with really good friends and fam. I tend to be more confident with myself when i get to know someone. there is a libra girl in my class who's really loud and confident and i am always really quiet in that class - do says and libras not get on? Is it normal for sags to be quiet and shy around people they don't know?

They do get on but they both love to be in control. I would say Libras a bit more and that might be the reason why sags are bit more shy/quiet. Sags aren’t that shy around people the don’t know but everyone is different. It really depends on the vibe you’re getting from those people. I would say uhm if you want to be more comfortable around other people or having a bit more confidence. I would try to find things that make you feel more comfortable or better. Try to talk about things you saw that were very cool or smth. Idk it’s normal tho to feel less confident when there are people you barely know. 

- Zack

[astrobility]

Rate compatibility between Sagittarius and Leo out of 10?

9/10

-Nina

[astrobility]

I'm dating my sag for a few months now he's great we love one another I see a real future there BUT I just don't feel like I can trust him with my darkest secrets because he's so unserious and carefree and does have a big mouth and my secrets are quite dark and very personal to me like when I told him our friend said he broke the light in his car my bf was like 'wtf I'm gonna hit him up about this!' And I was like omg no I'll get in shit?? Like idk we just don't get deep but can I with a sag?

sags take their time with these things, but i would definitely mention it to him! I think that if you tell him that you want to get something off of your chest, he will listen and care more deeply than he can show. 

-Nina